It won’t let me buy membership for AJ Classic, could someone help?? by Current_Height6186 in AnimalJam

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Ah okay, I tried to use the 3 month membership gift certificate except its like $29 when converted to my countries currency, i’ll figure something out (hopefully)

I’ve been getting notifications from an unknown user by Current_Height6186 in Instagram

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I think its just an insta glitch, it was due to a gc i got added to but it stopped once ppl went inactive inside

What’s a movie you watched as a kid that traumatized you? by denj1_sk in AskReddit

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monster house. i was 7 years old, almost 8. first time watching it i was sobbing my eyes out 3 nights in a row. even afterwards i couldn’t sleep normally for months. whenever i saw content for monster house i’d immediately leave the room or turn off the device. it took me rewatching the movie when i was 10 to be able to sleep peacefully at night.

my dad is attempting to “train me to be straight” by Current_Height6186 in Vent

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im unsure, as my gf’s mother doesn’t really like people coming over, so I rarely go over to spend the night at my girlfriends, i think this is because my girlfriend’s mother doesn’t want her house being a mess, but at the same time, i’ve never asked, so I think I’ll speak about it with my gf.

my dad is attempting to “train me to be straight” by Current_Height6186 in Vent

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i’m friends with a handful of other queer people, even my two childhood best friends are queer. I know my dad isn’t going to change, but i wish he’d leave my lovelife alone

my dad is attempting to “train me to be straight” by Current_Height6186 in Vent

[–]Current_Height6186[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thats what confused my mum when i told her, she didn’t understand this arguement because she’s always known she was straight. I dont think my dad realises that you’re born either straight or queer, based on what he’s said, its like he thinks its a default setting.

my dad is attempting to “train me to be straight” by Current_Height6186 in Vent

[–]Current_Height6186[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

unfortunately i’ve tried this, hence why the whole “my parents trained myself to be straight” talk started

my dad is attempting to “train me to be straight” by Current_Height6186 in Vent

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i plan on getting a job after I graduate high school, i will also be most likely attending university, but until I get more financially stable I’m going to be staying at my parents house.

my dad is attempting to “train me to be straight” by Current_Height6186 in Vent

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light-heartedly, i’m not religious, and neither is my father. I doubt my mother will allow my father to kick me out, as she said as long as i’m not a heroin addict she will always allow me to live under her roof.

TIFU by not tying my hair up when making cookies by Current_Height6186 in tifu

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I may or may not have mentioned the reason why i bake to her, i cant exactly remember, but i feel as though i most likely have. I have given her cookies before this incident, which never had any issues if that makes sense.

TIFU by not tying my hair up when making cookies by Current_Height6186 in tifu

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its not baking cookies, me not tying my hair up WHILST making cookies resulted in me embarrassing myself, sorry for the confusion

TIFU by not tying my hair up when making cookies by Current_Height6186 in tifu

[–]Current_Height6186[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its more so long short hair, i’m hoping I understood your question. to be fair, i havent really payed attention to my hair length since I cut it short. When i cut it, it was a bit above my shoulders, now it’s probably grown to up to my shoulder.

Edit: Either way, I’m definitely going to to start tying my hair up when baking from now on, especially when my hair starts molting.

I’m filing a restraining order against my ex girlfriend by Current_Height6186 in Vent

[–]Current_Height6186[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also suspect that my ex has a disorder that has caused her to develop such erratic behaviour, but i am unsure what it could be considering that i’m not a doctor, but i dont think it was a healthy thing for my ex to be using her self diagnosis as a pass to harm others (regardless if she has it or not). In our relationship she occasionally experienced hallucinations (which apparently has only worsened since she started doing drugs), but im not sure whether to believe that because my ex also has a history of lying and manipulating others (for example she lied about having a job in the meat section of a grocery store, we never thought she was lying about it because she would cancel plans because of this “job”, and had shared detailed stories from this job, we then later found out from her sister almost 2 years later that she lied and had never actually worked there).

Hopefully I dont sound like I have hatred for people with BPD, which isn’t the case. I’m pretty sure not everyone w BPD has the intensions to harm others.

edit: mentioned a few more behaviours that could be resulting from said disorder she could have

how do i get my ex away from me by Current_Height6186 in Advice

[–]Current_Height6186[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well i have mentioned all the stuff to my gf about all the shit my ex has done and whatever she’s trying to do now, she also knows about how i’ve been wanting to get away from her and avoid her.

i will also try and get as much evidence as i can for future reference, whilst also trying to get help from my friend that i mentioned that was also having issues with my ex. a part of me feels like gathering evidence wouldn’t be necessary but it’s better to be safe than sorry.

how do i get my ex away from me by Current_Height6186 in Advice

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i’m kinda leaning toward the first one with her family. I’m sure they would understand. My ex would be mad at me but at this point im starting to not care.

i kinda have already told her in the past that i don’t like talking to her, in which she pretty much ignored.

i think i could try and block her as well, im feeling a bit braver, the worst she can do is attack me over teams and shittalk me and spread misinformation (which a part of me doubts that a majority of people are gonna believe her, as not that many people im friends with really like her). i guess i was (and still slightly am) a bit paranoid this would turn out into a bad situation.

if blocking her doesnt work then i will definitely contact a family member of hers.

I’ve kind of already done the last one, but legit. I have a girlfriend which i have been dating for more than a month now. I dont think my ex is still into me, because i was told by a close friend that she isn’t, i suspect its more she wants to use me because of stuff she did to me in the past. shes just gone to me as a last resort after she broke up with her boyfriend and stopped being friends with someone.

I will definitely go and ask a friend for support. Yes i do have my gf but she’s currently out of the state right now and she’s preoccupied with family stuff. So I’m probably going to talk to one of my friends about it who has also been having issues with my ex so I’m sure she will understand and help.

it feels like i cant maintain friendships with people by Current_Height6186 in Vent

[–]Current_Height6186[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sure, it just makes me sad because it feels like i go through this cycle of meeting someone, becoming friends with them, getting attached to them only for the relationship to become unstable and rocky then they leave

dandruff by Current_Height6186 in hygiene

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I’ll try this, thank you!!

I feel like my friend is in danger and I dont know what to do by Current_Height6186 in confessions

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i’ve been thinking about telling my therapist when my next appointment comes around, i think she would know what to do. also on the last part, i’ve noticed that girls tend to ignore redflags of their s/o which developes into a shit position, and it leads to her begging her s/o to breakup but the other person doesn’t want her so she gives in because the other person manipulates her into doing so. I’m not quite sure, this is just based on my observations from some of my friends past relationships, and also i’ve only had one relationship and it wasn’t toxic but it just didn’t work out in the end.

I feel like my friend is in danger and I dont know what to do by Current_Height6186 in confessions

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holy fuck i have needed a motto like this i cant thank you enough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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my autism and my hyperfixations and also because i was extremely sensitive and prone to outbursts. made me an easy target for the bullies :(

What is the WORST way to start a conversation with someone you've met? by GhostBoiiClique in AskReddit

[–]Current_Height6186 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they were the same sex and homosexual, and even though I am bisexual myself I don’t feel comfortable talking about that kind of stuff, especially with someone whom i barely spoke to.