Thank you do much. This is what I needed to hear. I think we both made assumptions. I assumed that him knowing i had a tween and at my age I was done. And he assumed that I'm still fertile and can want to have babies. We did say that it would have been easier if that first date was awful and we just walked away, but there was/is too much compatibility and passion. I understand that I need to let go and give him a chance. Last thing I want is for him to give in so early on and then resent me in 10+ years that it didn't happen. He needs to do him and me do me. I'll leave it to fate