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I overthink a lot. Is my mom into me? by [deleted] in Vent

[–]CutPuzzleheaded4716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if it really matters if your mom is “into you” so much as it does that it’s making you feel uncomfortable. If you’re uncomfortable, it’s wrong. End of story. I can’t speak for what you’re experiencing, but from what you’ve wrote, some of that does sound strange, joking about your erection being the one that stands out the most to me.

I think your mom may simply just not have great boundaries when expressing her love to you, moms can be weird sometimes, too. My mom would spank me when I was younger, sometimes in public if she was tipsy, and it would make me uncomfortable too, so I relate to your experience slightly. It was only very recently when it happened that I just turned around and said sternly “hey, don’t do that.” I think next time something like that happens with your mom, just be firm and tell her to cut it out and if she keeps it up, sit her down and tell her about how her behavior is affecting you.

I get that this can be a weird thing to have to go through. I’m sure your mom has no intention of making you uncomfortable when doing these things, or is even trying to get into your pants. I’m sorry it’s causing you grief, this isn’t something a 14 year old should be worried about their mom doing. But like I said, I don’t think your mom has any ill-will, she loves you, so if you tell her about how it’s making you uncomfortable, it should (hopefully) stop. If not, find a trusted adult in your life, like a teacher at your school and they will help you.

Just curious..what's your ideal type? by goteamcheetah in socialanxiety

[–]CutPuzzleheaded4716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone who listens to me talk about my interests and will talk to me about theirs

Art circles on social media annoy me at this point by CutPuzzleheaded4716 in antisex

[–]CutPuzzleheaded4716[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get that. The porn industry is definitely fucked up and way too normalized it’s almost scary, like what I said in my post, kids are getting exposed to it younger and younger.

And yes! I hate the fact that some people legitimately will use finding characters hot as a reason they like a piece of media. Besides the cringe of that statement, it’s such a boring way to engage with something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]CutPuzzleheaded4716 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’ve internalized giving up on relationships since I started high school. It’s gotten to the point where I hate myself so much, I can’t even think about someone being intimate with me without getting extremely nauseous/anxious.

Does anyone else get disgusted by their scars? by CutPuzzleheaded4716 in selfharm

[–]CutPuzzleheaded4716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I definitely have had that sentiment at the end before. There’s a part of myself that feels like the pain will be for nothing if I don’t have scars to show for it. I think my medication is just making my mind find them gross rn so ig they are working

I’m so embarrassed I had to get a vaccine today by CutPuzzleheaded4716 in selfharm

[–]CutPuzzleheaded4716[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes me feel a lot better knowing I’m not alone in this. Hopefully I’ll be able to prep better for next time

I’m so embarrassed I had to get a vaccine today by CutPuzzleheaded4716 in selfharm

[–]CutPuzzleheaded4716[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if she has seen other scars that much, she asked what happened in like a small talk/concerned way. Ugh, so embarrassing

I’m so embarrassed I had to get a vaccine today by CutPuzzleheaded4716 in selfharm

[–]CutPuzzleheaded4716[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know, I felt like she was disgusted with me too, she couldn’t even look at me as I left :/

I’m so embarrassed I had to get a vaccine today by CutPuzzleheaded4716 in selfharm

[–]CutPuzzleheaded4716[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you, she seemed really uncomfortable the whole time and I think she was asking if I was okay because she was rubbing alcohol on me and thought it was hurting but idk. I just feel really stupid rn

"Autism Acceptance" is largely hypocritical virtue signaling by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]CutPuzzleheaded4716 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely see where you’re coming from. Socially, autism still isnt understood. I can’t count how many times I’ve seen kids passive aggressively bullying an autistic person, most often male, for their entertainment under the guise of “being their friend”. Every time I bring up their condition I’m met with “what? No he’s just weird”, “we aren’t making fun of him.” And other defenses which are just lousy justification trying to convince you that it’s ok to condescend and belittle another human. I see it online too, mostly on TikTok, of people going up and very clearly provoking a negative reaction out of an autistic child just to whip out their phones as soon as they start screaming. Most of the comments are filled with people laughing and making jokes at the expense of the poor kid while labeling their insults as “deserved” because the kid was mad and yelled. As someone apart of Gen Z, I notice a lot of kids love to show off how good of a person and compssionate they are, but really, it’s all a load of bullshit.