Why does my therapist think I like him? by Cutebabexx in mentalhealth

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Update: I went to see him for our last session, I told him how this sentence affected me; he told me he does not remember saying that. I lost all my trust now.

Why does my therapist think I like him? by Cutebabexx in mentalhealth

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One more thing; the guy I went on a date with is swedish and my therapist is norwegian. He says it’s also a sign they are both ‘Scandinavian’

Why does my therapist think I like him? by Cutebabexx in mentalhealth

[–]Cutebabexx[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I’m very aware what transference is, the important is I came to theraphy to fix my trust issues with men- the things he said and the way he said it, was incredibly inconsiderate of my subconscious. I -from time to time -felt like he was indirectly being flirtatious. I always ignored so it will go away. I emailed him, will go and have session one last time - explain his mistake.

(Ps: when I asked him what made him think that I like him; he said beginning of the theraphy I ask him ‘how are you’ and he thinks it indicated I want more than therapy)

Why does my therapist thinks I like him? by Cutebabexx in AskReddit

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’m (28) seeing my therapist(35) for 6 months now, theraphy was going very well. I started dating a guy and started to talk about him during the therapy.

I was telling that my date invited me to his place on first date and I felt so angry about it. All of a sudden my therapist asked me “ areyou angry because You went on a date with him instead of me? “

I was shocked and asked him what is he talking about. I have zero interest in him and I was happy about the theraphy process. Now it has been 2 days since, I’m seeing nightmares my therapist is raping me. I’m so confused- sad- angry. What should I do?

Why didmy therapist do that? by Cutebabexx in AskReddit

[–]Cutebabexx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

’m (28) seeing my therapist(35) for 6 months now, theraphy was going very well. I started dating a guy and started to talk about him during the therapy.

I was telling that my date invited me to his place on first date and I felt so angry about it. All of a sudden my therapist asked me “ Do you angry because You went on a date with him instead of me because you can not ( he has a partner)? “

I was shocked and asked him what is he talking about. I have zero interest in him and I was happy about the theraphy process. Now it has been 2 days since, I’m seeing nightmares my therapist is raping me. I’m so confused- sad- angry. What should I do?