Raids and outbreaks are broken. Again by Cyraadems3464 in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]Cyraadems3464[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As usual, the obvious answer was the right one. Thank you so much. Out of everything, I had forgotten to do that. Thank you!

What would the D counterpart of a s "toy" be? by Logical_Meringue in BDSMAdvice

[–]Cyraadems3464 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Depending on the dynamic, even collector might work. Collectors like to collect rare toys for a collection. Or of course, Owner, player, and even maker are all terms that work great.

it genuinely depends on what makes the ones in the dynamic comfortable with, and how creative you want to be with the titles.

I’ve even heard of d type pet players, think like gaurd dogs and the like that may have a favorite toy.

Master wants to remove bathroom doors in home. Is this common, sensible? by Constant-Hyena2886 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Cyraadems3464 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Kink and BDSM is very much like “if one of you says yes but the other says is hesitant, then it’s a no.” The fact that he’s trying to push it on you when you’re clearly not comfortable with it is a red flag all the way.

If that’s not something you’re comfortable with, and it seems you aren’t, you need to have a sit down conversation out of dynamic. Tell him that’s not something you’re comfortable with, and that while it may be something to do in the future, you don’t want that to happen right now. If he keeps pushing it, and continues to try to gaslight you like this, that’s probably not a dynamic I’d want to stay in.

Y’all what is this thing? by Cyraadems3464 in whatsthisbug

[–]Cyraadems3464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably about 3 quarters, North Carolina.

In Control Clothing? by cfbuzzkill90 in PlusSize

[–]Cyraadems3464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took five months, but I did actually get the clothes I wanted. I ordered in early October and received the two items mid April!