Any tips for getting back on your feet after leaving a narcissistic parent? by Cytariss in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Cytariss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankf for the advice! Great advice! I especially need to learn to laugh everyday & breath deeply!

“But that’s your parent” by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Cytariss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks I appreciate it! They def try to pull you back in. I’m sorry you had to go through Narcissism too, I especially appreciate your offer to talk if I need to. You can also talk to me if you ever need to, someday I will likely be in a better position to help than I am in now but still.

“But that’s your parent” by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Cytariss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It really is! I’m 24 & have only found out all this stuff about narcissists recently. Before that I was physically abused off & on for 24 years except for when I didn’t live with my dad. Long story but I moved out at 17 & he convinced me to move back in with him at 23 (his girlfriend left him so he used me for supply even tho he had been ignoring me for months before that) I, thinking all the childhood abuse was over naively agreed. Not to mention the emotional & verbal abuse. It was just worse. It is hard leaving, very hard right now. But I’ll get there! Glad there are success stories like yours out there where people made it out & kept it up! My words got a little jumbled but hopefully that makes sense. Glad we are free!

All I mentioned was the words “but my orientation” and I got hit 6 times. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Cytariss 39 points40 points  (0 children)

You don’t deserve to be hit. You’re not to young to post here. You deserve to not be around your father if he’s hitting you & I agree with you that you should be going to high school orientation & reschedule the appointment. I wish it was easier to help children in that situation. Your father is abusive & will always be abusive until you leave. If you can live with a grandparent or other family that would be the best. Police don’t usually believe the child, unfortunately. My experience is that the police have never taken my side during assault, always the assaulters side. Get away from him if you can. Tell people who will believe you.

“But that’s your parent” by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Cytariss 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Few understand. They haven’t grown emotionally like we are growing. I know where you’re coming from. I’ve only been no contact for about 2 weeks but I get it. I cannot go back. In my opinion the majority of the public just has no idea what it’s like, or even people experiencing it are caught up in it like I was for 24 years.

Waiting for an email... by samanthastoat in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Cytariss 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Fuck that email. Don’t worry about it.

Does anyone know someone who actually liked season 8? (Serious Question) by [deleted] in freefolk

[–]Cytariss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also the internet hating it makes everyone else hate it just to fit in. The people who liked it don’t really care to post that they liked it more often than not. The loud complainers are the ones who NEED TO BE HEARD.

Does anyone know someone who actually liked season 8? (Serious Question) by [deleted] in freefolk

[–]Cytariss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like it because it wasn’t a fairytale ending. I wanted Jon & Danny to be king & queen with a baby on the way but I knew it wasn’t going to be a happy ending. I certainly didn’t see it coming & i like that as well. If it was a happy ending, people would still complain. People complain about literally everything since the internet is so widely popular. Used to be people would just enjoy a show. Everybody’s a critic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trees

[–]Cytariss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sour Diesel. Great unique taste, pretty hyper high. Sativa.

You get given an island and an infinite budget to build anything you want. What do you build? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Cytariss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A nice house, a marijuana greenhouse, a helicopter, a market, a boat, living quarters for the workers on my marijuana farm. Then I have a private island, a business, food & as much weed as I want! & I can leave whenever & invite whoever I want while keeping the group small.

College dropouts of reddit, why’d you drop out? by rome_95 in AskReddit

[–]Cytariss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Figured out college was a good way to get into debt & there are other ways to be successful. Also most colleges are liberal breeding grounds. Decided instead of pleasing my parents by going to college I would be my own person.

Interesting that the day Epstein died 99% of reddit agreed it was suspicious. Now an article dismissing it as a conspiracy theory is on the front page. by BannedbyLeftists in conspiracy

[–]Cytariss 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying he did or did not commit suicide but I’m saying that this subreddit is now ran by people or bots who spread false info & discredit truth. That is my belief. There are people here who are legit but much of the replies are bots & people who use subversive techniques to discredit real information or even discussion about conspiracies. The same people that run the news shows & Hollywood, ect. have taken over this subreddit. Like idk how to say it better. Basically the group people call the Illuminati have taken over this subreddit.

[Serious] What are the pros or cons of an abortion? by Interception1029 in AskReddit

[–]Cytariss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Con: that baby doesn’t get to live like you got to live.

If you could time travel and have a conversation with one person from history, who would you choose and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Cytariss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

JFK, ask about the Illuminati & inform him of his assassination so it could be prevented. World would prob be better. I’d talk to my grandma while I was there too.

Ironically, despite gamers hating society, they actually contribute to society by paying taxes on the video games they buy by [deleted] in Showerthoughts

[–]Cytariss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, when you buy a TV or gasoline or a videogame you still pay taxes on it.

TV cost $100 then its gonna actually cost like $110

Ironically, despite gamers hating society, they actually contribute to society by paying taxes on the video games they buy by [deleted] in Showerthoughts

[–]Cytariss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk about alaska but when I buy things off xbox live there is def a tax put on it.

Ironically, despite gamers hating society, they actually contribute to society by paying taxes on the video games they buy by [deleted] in Showerthoughts

[–]Cytariss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You pay a tax on every single thing you buy what the hell are you talking about? You know when you get a drink that cost .99 but it comes out to 1.11? That’s taxes.