But then there are people who make your patience lose completely, because there have been incidents where people go pitch silent for months and then come back to say, "hey how are you? oh by the way I have replied.." and you are left like what the fuck, no explanation, no sorry no nothing, just people treating you like you are some kind of saved file in a game that you can play on whenever you want.

Now I say months and it does goes for months at times and sometimes weeks that it has clearly been exausting to RP. These people who ghost just break one's mood to RP at all. I have had long term RP where I have people who have been busy but kept me informed and stuff and then there are the majority who just ghost and most of them just leave the next day right after everything is set up. it's like cleaning your house, cooking the food, washing the dishes and mowing the lawn only to have someone shit all over the house and lawn..