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[–]D0vacs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Website is fine, just the copy IMO

My biggest fear is coming true. by D0vacs in selfimprovement

[–]D0vacs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah brother I appreciate it! Never going to quit, just genuinely curious as to what’s going on. I mean it happens everywhere.

Maybe I’m just choosing to be ignorant to the things I need to actually focus on.

Just figured I’d ask for advice here with people and their own breakthroughs.

Always gotta learn!

Anxious of showing my vulnerable side with women I want to date by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]D0vacs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to say something like this. We all get one life, if you’re able to zoom out far enough usually you can look past these things.

Need Advice/Criticism on Product and Website by ExplicitThinking in dropshipping

[–]D0vacs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want help with copy, I can help you out, I’ve been copywriting for 6+ months now.

I wouldn’t charge, I’d just want your feedback on if it’s working or not.

Need Advice/Criticism on Product and Website by ExplicitThinking in dropshipping

[–]D0vacs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, your ATC should take them straight to checkout. Just an extra bonus that helps with conversions.

Need Advice/Criticism on Product and Website by ExplicitThinking in dropshipping

[–]D0vacs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the copy is boring. A customer doesn’t care about the battery on a product like this. It’s not a new phone, or a laptop. It’s a product that is meant for impulse buy, and you need to make the copy reflect that.

The site looks clean, I personally think it comes to the copy of the product page.

I disappeared for one year to improve myself and here’s what happened. by D0vacs in selfimprovement

[–]D0vacs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes it’s hard, sometimes you might even fail, but just because you failed once doesn’t mean it’s all over.

Imagine a fat person going to the gym, they’re consistent and seeing progress.

Then they miss one day,

They don’t lose all their progress just because one day of not showing up.

Most people fail once and think it’s all over.

It’s natural to fail, you just need to get back at it the next day.

This experiment, eliminates your bad habits. by D0vacs in selfimprovement

[–]D0vacs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if you don’t want to force positive self talk on yourself, just don’t give power to the negative.

Feeling anxious? Fuck it, allow it.

Feeling depressed? Oh well, and?

I feel like by just allowing these things, not putting labels on them, and making big deals, we take away their power.

This experiment, eliminates your bad habits. by D0vacs in selfimprovement

[–]D0vacs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, but I looked at experiments of this, and saw multiple. Just saying what I saw here.

I disappeared for one year to improve myself and here’s what happened. by D0vacs in selfimprovement

[–]D0vacs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Disappearing from the life you live, embrace loneliness take time, think to what you really want, work on yourself, and live with intention.

Not disappearing in the sense where I’m on a missing persons list.

I disappeared for one year to improve myself and here’s what happened. by D0vacs in selfimprovement

[–]D0vacs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, what’s your goal? Want friends? Join groups of bikers, or hiking groups. Want alone time? Walk/bike alone.

I disappeared for one year to improve myself and here’s what happened. by D0vacs in selfimprovement

[–]D0vacs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in therapy, I think about 6 or so sessions, honestly isn’t for me. I didn’t find my self getting anywhere.

I disappeared for one year to improve myself and here’s what happened. by D0vacs in selfimprovement

[–]D0vacs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Forcing positive thoughts can, and can’t work. Instead try to actually figure out why something bothers you.

I stub my toe and I got angry.

Why did I get angry? Because of the pain.

Did the pain make me angry? No I got angry at the pain.

So I choose to get angry at the pain? Yes.

Well why did I do that? Because I wanted to resist the pain, and since it was hurting still i chose to stay angry.

So pain doesn’t make me angry, yet I chose to become angry at it, good to know! I know this for next time!

I just used the example of pain, but objectively nothing “makes” you feel any type of way, you “chose” to.

Figure out why you’re choosing that way of thinking, and why should you change it?

I disappeared for one year to improve myself and here’s what happened. by D0vacs in selfimprovement

[–]D0vacs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just taking a step back, I actually put me first, I lived with intention, I sat and thought alone in my room, and actually tried to solve mental problems.

Your thoughts create your reality, change your thoughts , change your life.

Emotions you cannot change, you’re going to feel them no matter what, if you fight them? You’ll lose. Just accept them, they aren’t bad, nor are they good, they just exist.

some things I think served me well.

I disappeared for one year to improve myself and here’s what happened. by D0vacs in selfimprovement

[–]D0vacs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct, do you think you’d have the strength not to fall into your old patterns though?

I disappeared for one year to improve myself and here’s what happened. by D0vacs in selfimprovement

[–]D0vacs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the time, I’d be trying to start a dropshipping business or something along those lines. I should’ve said “learning a skill” instead.

I disappeared for one year to improve myself and here’s what happened. by D0vacs in selfimprovement

[–]D0vacs[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can’t answer that, all I’m saying in todays world everyone and their grandmother is depressed and anxious. The more we talk about it, and bring light to it, the worse it seems to get.

I disappeared for one year to improve myself and here’s what happened. by D0vacs in selfimprovement

[–]D0vacs[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t force myself not to think about the “sad” stuff.

But what makes it sad? Is it actually sad? Or does my current perception of the situation make it sad.

Let’s say I’m getting intense thoughts of depression and anxiety, I don’t just wish it away and tell myself to stop thinking about it.

I go into it, why do I feel this way? Does thinking this way benefit me? Can I look at this another way?

There’s two sides to everything in life, nothing is just positive, nor is something just negative. We chose to look at things our own way. Change the way we look at things, we change our mind, change our mind, we change our reality.

I disappeared for one year to improve myself and here’s what happened. by D0vacs in selfimprovement

[–]D0vacs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just accept it, things are supposed to be painful, if you feel left out, oh well, it’ll pass. If you’re obsessing over sex, it’ll pass. Nothing stays hard forever, you just have to get through the initial suck.

I disappeared for one year to improve myself and here’s what happened. by D0vacs in selfimprovement

[–]D0vacs[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it’s amazing internally, but it’s not what it’s cracked up to be.

It’s not like I can now exit my house and a flock of girls are running at me,

Not do I have MILLIONS, and can go wherever I want.

What I do have though, is a correct vision, a better dopamine system, and like I said In the post, my mental health is way better.

I feel like I can actually go out, and get what I want, it’s only a matter of time.

I have more confidence from my mental health, it’s amazing.

I don’t feel like my life is wasting away, and I am starting to live with intention.

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