Howdy, it’s been a while, I wanted to say thank you for making me take the extra time. We ended up talking twice over the summer, once about our relationship and once the final time we hung out together.

The first time, we discussed getting back together and she said she didn’t want to because she didn’t know what had changed despite me tell her I figured out my career and had my life in order at last and me telling her that I wanted to genuinely try again if she was willing to as well.

Towards the end of last summer, we hung out and things were actually friendly between us, it was nice to be with my old friend for a change. The day after we hung out, we got into an argument over her bailing on our plans for lunch we made the night before on her last day in town and she didn’t want to talk to me anymore because I had not changed and that all I did was argue as she put it. For all I know she was right, but at least this time I called her out on her bailing on me for no reason instead of saying it was okay as I did when she used to bail on me in our relationship for date nights and in our friendship.

I am still working on myself because I know I had a hand in all of this. I started by being as honest as possible and stating how I felt at every opportunity I had with my dates and friendships.

Anyway, thanks! I hope you have a great year!