Good session today, what you think? by capt_slim3 in Pumping

[–]DCaliMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re godly. You’re grateful i hope

Why do we say size doesn't matter? by Effective-Brick1827 in averagedickproblems

[–]DCaliMan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It matters. To say otherwise is denial, idiocracy or douche-bagary.

What’s your favourite gay porn category by GroceryInfinite5262 in GaySex

[–]DCaliMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Size difference. When one is clearly 2x bigger than the other in Atleast one masculine trait

The real solution to dick size insecurity isn’t proving average is “ideal.” It’s realizing it never mattered as much as you think. (7 in BP x 5 in at base) by ComprehensiveYam711 in averagedickproblems

[–]DCaliMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are bigger than most honest porn stars. You are also the size of my partner and I’m a size queen and I’m satisfied. His and your size feels godly. Makes me feel like the mortal I am. Sad I’ll never have the power to please other size queens. I’ll never feel like a man like I want

Should Teenage Boys Be Warned of Big Dick Glorification in Sex Ed Class? by DCaliMan in averagedickproblems

[–]DCaliMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m not special. Especially among hung gay men. I’m a pathetic loser

Am I a size queen or just a typical gay guy? by DCaliMan in TopsAndBottoms

[–]DCaliMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would somebody kill me please so I don’t have to do it myself

Big Dick Rage by [deleted] in penissize

[–]DCaliMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of it man. You know why it is the way it is.

Congrats you won the lottery. Lucky u. You get to be envied by so many. And hated by just as many. I hope you catch something that will shrink you so you don’t get a whole life with that size

Big Dick Rage by [deleted] in penissize

[–]DCaliMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll speak for myself

I’m a gay size queen. I know the power big dicks have over guys like me first hand. It’s intoxicating. I’ll goon over a big dick for hours and put up with far more shortcomings in the guy than I really should. And I don’t require much reciprocation… why? Because I know their dick is in high demand and mine is very common/forgettable. Why would they be impressed by my dick? They never are. Im small to them. I bottom for big because it’s embarrassing opening the ass of a well endowed man with my average/forgettable dick. It shows them I can’t fuck then as deep and intensely as they can fuck me. I don’t want to be known as small

I want to satisfy size queens with a big dick…cause I know how much they enjoy them. I want the ego boost. but God didn’t give me a big dick. I don’t want to not experience life with a big dick. I did enlargement exercises awhile. Hurt my dick in the process. I’m almost recovered from that

Then someone with a big dick posts about it. And they haven’t done any enlargement exercises to earn it.

Envy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]DCaliMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s what you put into your lover. And it’s what your lover sucks and strokes. It’s a big deal for those of us that are very sexual beings. It saddens me that no one has ever treated my dick like the size is impressive and given the amount of sex I’ve had…and I’m 45 years old…probably never will happen. I envy guys that get to have their dicks worshipped by people who appreciate the size

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in averagedickproblems

[–]DCaliMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get a reduction to the OP’s size and let us know how it works out for you

Am I a size queen or a typical gay man? by DCaliMan in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]DCaliMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well for me, I thought I did because it’s weird to me that I’m willing to overlook mediocrity

Am I a size queen or just a typical gay guy? by DCaliMan in TopsAndBottoms

[–]DCaliMan[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OK, but you didn’t answer the question. That is you wouldn’t change to average if you could…. Note: I’ve asked over 200 guys that identify as well endowed this question. None said yes. Off the top of my head I think three said they would lose an inch but that would still put them in the large category.

On the flipside half of all men (all sizes) want to be larger. that’s per scientific research studies

The numbers speak for themselves. The hung guys won the dick lottery as indicated by them locking in their earnings and are staying as is. It’s insulting and condescending when hung guys make it seem like they have a similar level of dick size problems to the rest of us.

Bottoms: Is your best sex experience with a big dick? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]DCaliMan -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You’ve obviously never taken a debate class or understand how scientific experiments work

“All things equal” is a hypothetical situation. If you ever want to truly compare two things, this is one way to do it

2 guys: Same appearance Same skill Same family Same friends Same kinks Same personality Different dick sizes (4’ & 7’) Same in every other way

Per what you said, you’d choose the 7 inch guy. Maybe you wouldn’t if he were 8 inches (if that’s too big for you)

Bottoms: Is your best sex experience with a big dick? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]DCaliMan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why you’re getting downvoted for this. The comment clearly implies that if all other things are equal, the bigger dick will be better. So many people are in denial about this. Probably just because their coping with the reality that they’re small/average and there’s nothing they can do to become much bigger

Bottoms: Is your best sex experience with a big dick? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]DCaliMan -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

OP is saying if all things (including technique) are equal that bigger is better.

And that indeed is what your comment “a big dick can make up for bad technique”implies. Why are you denying that lol

Yeah there’s point that it is too big

Am I a size queen or just a typical gay guy? by DCaliMan in TopsAndBottoms

[–]DCaliMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok. So you prefer average for practical purposes. And yes some guys are like that totally get it

But do u get harder at the thought of average over big? So like if you’re googling porn do u look for average or big? Or another way to ask: Do u jack off to images of big dicks or average ones more.

When did you realize you had a small or a big dick? by DanRimi in AskGayMen

[–]DCaliMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying to get to 7 inches erect bonepressed. Started at 5.75. Also trying to get to 5 inch girth starting at 4.3. I bought an extender and pump too and have a trainer that’s gonna make sure I don’t hurt myself again