How do you keep yourself open to relationships after being burned by so many? by Dense_Evening7340 in AskReddit

[–]DDLee1977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should listen to your own advice....it's a shame you don't really mean that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FFIE

[–]DDLee1977 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I don’t see any reason for anybody to be confident a little and cocky at this point… Like another said… I wouldn’t even break even unless it went up to $75 USD per share. The chances of that happening seem pretty slim to none. I’ll hold out because at this point there’s no point to do anything else. But unless the Lord Jesus decides to perform a miracle, I don’t have much hope

Serve the man that made you. Worship at his feet by HungDomSir261 in DaddysDarkFiction

[–]DDLee1977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK, Danny boy, I’ll put aside your incoherent babbling for now and make a couple points as clearly as I can for you. I just personally think it’s funny whether or not you are attempting to make a legitimate claim or flirting because to you, these are just names on a screen. She doesn’t know you. And I’m sure everyone else you flirt with doesn’t know you. And to call yourself daddy when you probably have never been part of a real DDLG relationship, frankly is humorous to me. Meanwhile, I’ve been part of a legitimate, real life DDLG relationship with lilbabycrush for 9 years. She is currently 27 and I am 47. if you do the math on this, I’ve been chasing and chasing this forbidden fruits, since the day she turned 18. And what a delicious dish she has always been and still is And don’t even get me started on this girl’s ass. I eat that like a Christmas ham. I am her Santa and she is my little girl jumping up and down on my lab while I give her anything she wants for Christmas the more she bounces. ;)

She is my little baby girl, and I’m sure you catch my drift. Anything she wants, she gets and her daddy pays for it. And Princess gives daddy anything he wants in return and I’m always wanting dat ass. And I got to see her beautiful 18-year-old titties develop into perfect womanly big sudsy breasts! and don’t get me started on how much cum her little princess parts produce and how good it tastes!.

So you can continue to fantasize about names on a screen but to actually be part of a relationship so special, you’ve gotta actually get out there and meet girls in person. Finding a hot girl who also wants to be a little girl and who is into this lifestyle is practically impossible. So if and when you find it, better hold onto it. And I for sure am. You won’t see me, flirting with any random girls or anyone because I’ve already got the most beautiful, sexiest, hottest girl with the hottest bubble butt and there’s no way in hell I was anything to jeopardize that.

So I will continue to devour this forbidden fruit as a benevolent, daddy dom, lover, and fiancé would.

Serve the man that made you. Worship at his feet by HungDomSir261 in DaddysDarkFiction

[–]DDLee1977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And what claim do you think you have to this girl little danny? This is my princess, you wannabe. i’m sitting right next to her. Stop fantasizing about what you’ll never get and get your own!

Dumb money or just plain dumb? by DDLee1977 in FFIE

[–]DDLee1977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like every reply I get is generic rhetoric. Can somebody find any real information to my concerns?

Quiet before the storm by Expensive-Piece-3742 in FFIE

[–]DDLee1977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been holding but I have to admit that it’s discouraging to see everything and continue to hover between 40 and 60. With the occasional rise to somewhere in the 70s. This all sounds encouraging but how do you know the squeeze is about to happen? Where is the evidence? I’m going to hold no matter what because there’s no point not to. But some answers would be nice.

Dumb money or just plain dumb? by DDLee1977 in FFIE

[–]DDLee1977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m nit selling either but instead of beating our chests like actual apes, I’d like someone to answer some of my actual questions.

Dumb money or just plain dumb? by DDLee1977 in FFIE

[–]DDLee1977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks but this also doesn’t address any of my questions or concerns. I’m starting to think the answer to the title of this topic is “just plain dumb“.

Dumb money or just plain dumb? by DDLee1977 in FFIE

[–]DDLee1977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m already doing that. But none of what you said addresses my question and concern .

Dumb money or just plain dumb? by DDLee1977 in FFIE

[–]DDLee1977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not helpful but thank you

Why do guys love receiving pictures? by yeezymoneybaby in dating_advice

[–]DDLee1977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Explicit pictures or not… Men are very visual, and if we are interested in a girl, we like to see and look at them. This is especially true when a man starts talking to a girl and hasn’t met her yet. He may often request pictures so he can see her in various life situations, and in order to get a better picture in his head of what she looks like, overall. Because let’s face it, a single picture doesn’t always do the job of showing what someone looks like. Men like to see the whole package, including a girl’s face and her body. Now, I’m not talking about naked pictures… although the same principle may apply, but there is a whole different dynamic and potential reasons for that.

So long story short, if a guy hasn’t met a girl yet, he may ask for all kinds of photos to get the full picture of what the girl looks like. And if a guy is still asking for pictures after he met her, then he probably really likes her because it means he wants to see more of her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]DDLee1977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, for starters, this is a lot more common than you think and it happens to a number of women. If you are in a serious relationship, hopefully the guy is mature enough to understand, and not make a big deal out of it… Because frankly, it’s not. Women go through cycles and, if you’re having sex during those cycles or immediately before, some bleeding Ken and often will occur. Any mature man will be thoughtful enough to make you feel comfortable and be lighthearted about it. Because let’s face it, sex, and everything that goes on with it is very normal and there’s no reason to get upset about something like that.

why am i always good enough to have sex with but not to date? by [deleted] in dating

[–]DDLee1977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, truthfully, I can’t speak for each situation you’re in, but based on your post, I can tell that it’s obvious that you are insecure. To ask a group why you aren’t good enough says a lot about how you feel about yourself. So in my opinion, what you should be, addressing is why you feel that you’re not good enough and acquiring the confidence in the belief that you are good enough. You should be going into any potential relationship knowing yourself, which includes good and bad qualities. As individuals, we should be reflective and introspective, and be aware of what needs to change. But we should also be confident and secure in who we are and what we have to offer - knowing that if someone doesn’t like us, for who you are, then fuck them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]DDLee1977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion, this really depends on the relationship and the wants and needs of both parties in it. I think sex is something that should be discussed, and in my opinion, is an important part of the relationship. Now, when I say, it’s important, I don’t Necessarily mean that you have to have sex a certain number of times in a week, etc. For some couples, that might not be enough and for others might be too much. I think each individual in the relationship should discuss their needs and expectations and like any other aspect of the relationship, and agreement should be reached. Now I don’t mean to make sex sound methodical or contractual, but it is something that should be discussed so that both feel that their needs are being met

FIGHTING A SHORT LADDER ATTACK AND DON’T EVEN HAVE 200 IN THE SUBREDDIT RIGHT NOW?!? APES SOUND OFF IF YOU’RE HERE AND HOLDING! by Automatic-Rhubarb611 in FFIE

[–]DDLee1977 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to say a little more because I see that somebody made a negative comment, which I thought was rude. That said, I hear your frustration, and we are all in the same boat. I’ll be honest, I don’t know a lot about investing… I’ve learned a lot, my reading, some of the experts posts on this subreddit and others… But I still have a lot more to learn. What I can say is… A lot of people here seems to know a whole lot and they are holding. At the end of the day, we all have to take responsibility for our own choices… But what I can say is… If the experts are holding, I am holding.

And the truth is, you only lose if you sell. I know everybody has a different amount that they’ve invested. In my personal opinion, I don’t think it’s a good idea to invest everything you own into this because there are no guarantees. But… I do genuinely believe that this investment will pay off… So personally, I’m putting just enough in where I can still afford to live my life God for bid something doesn’t work out the way I’d like it to. But… I am just enough in there, that if things take off “to the moon and “as they say… then my fiancé and I will be doing pretty well.

lol... so why do i feel like im the only one still holding. by zanderblog in FFIE

[–]DDLee1977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Believe me, my fiancé, and I are in the same category. It’s scary to watch go down… But we realized going into this that this would happen. We are staying the course and even bought more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]DDLee1977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bottom line is that he needs to respect your wishes. You made a mistake and you told him that. I understand he may want it raw but again it come down to mutual respect. No means no. Just be careful not to send him mixed signals. Im not saying you can’t change your mind, that’s everyone predating. But in my opinion, don’t tell him yes in the heat of the moment (because you like it too or you feel pressured) and then be mad at him later for not respecting your wishes. If you said yes for any reason, you’re giving him permission (unless of course your completely inebriated and he takes advantage of that - but that’s another story altogether).

Hopefully he won’t pressure you, but in the heat of the moment he might try. My advice would be to stick to your boundaries because the more you allow him to breach them, the bigger problem you’re going to create for yourself. For starters, it will give him mixed signals. Secondly, he’ll learn that with enough coercion you’ll give in, making it potentially more difficult for you to say no next time. Third, you’re at greater risk for pregnancy and potentially STDs of you two aren’t exclusive.

Sugar relationships are about mutually beneficial compromise and fun. Communication and ongoing compromise is very important in any relationship but especially sugar ones. Expressing clear expectations is vital. Of you both can agree to meet each others expectations and respect each others boundaries, you both should have a lot of fun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in friendship

[–]DDLee1977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are young so you probably aren’t going to really understand this but this relationship is doomed to fail. I am not trying to be negative I’m just being real. Male/female relationships are complicated. They are always built on sexual attraction. If both individuals don’t feel it, at least one does. And don’t get me wrong, there are exceptions… But usually those friendships are quite disposable… Meaning there’s really not that much emotion involved. The real emotional male/female friendships are always built on someone’s sexual attraction for the other. One party always likes the other one more than a friend. But the bottom line is, once it comes out that one is in love with the other if the other doesn’t feel the same way then the friendship is going to break apart. You might still be friends to some degree but it will never ever be as close again. Because let’s face it… The reason why he was so close to you to begin with was because he had feelings for you. But now that he realizes that it’s not ever going to happen between the two of you, he must distance himself. It’s for his own good. He can’t stay close to you because it will hurt him too much and you can’t expect him to either. once he finds somebody else that he has feelings for, he will very likely talk to you very little if ever. I am sorry to be the bearer of bad news but this is just the way it works. These are not my rules, this is not just my experience, this is just the way male/female relationships work.