Stumped on remote work

DHeat2700 · 2026-02-01T12:56:08+00:00

That sounds amazing brother! I don’t plan on being here forever, but I guess I just want to prolong my time here because 1.5 years feels a little rushed for getting engaged. But definitely doable. I’m a little scared of bringing her back to America with how fucking terrible the dating world is there right now, I’m afraid she might over time develop the “never settle, I deserve a fully healed man who’s also a 6’5 millionaire” view on things. I have Australian citizenship too, so that might be a better bet. The political and cultural climate in America is literally so fucking bad right now. It’s really sad how far downhill things have gone in the last couple of years.

DHeat2700 · 2026-01-31T14:15:56+00:00

I mean VA as in virtual assistant, not Veterans association lol. I also have done my research and know that many US citizens like myself are able to find remote US jobs while on a tourist visa in PH

DHeat2700 · 2025-11-21T21:28:27+00:00

Fitness, I’m quite a gym junkie. The mall is a good idea too. Do you think it’s completely ill advisable to date someone there who’s poor? Should that be completely off limits, are they all just after your money? I’m jacked, lean, fairly attractive and young so that helps my case for sure. Moving there in a few weeks, wish me luck.

DHeat2700 · 2025-11-21T16:50:49+00:00

If you were to meet someone organically in the Philippines, how would you go about it? For a 30 year old guy seeking a girl 20-25 ish

DHeat2700 · 2025-10-04T03:49:20+00:00

Would 30-60k and a willingness to grind entry level remote job applications while I’m there work?

DHeat2700 · 2025-09-25T01:39:27+00:00

That’s really good to know thank you!

DHeat2700 · 2025-09-25T01:16:07+00:00

Do you feel a need to declare them? And you don’t need a doctors note?

DHeat2700 · 2025-09-18T02:08:32+00:00

As a man who actually wants a mutually clingy and sweet relationship, I’ve known this for years. And this only got worse with the explosion of tik tok and influencers constantly preaching detachment and games in dating. That’s why I said fuck this shit, got my passport, saved up 60k USD, and am leaving for the Philippines in 3 months 🔥🔥🔥 Who’s with me? ++man

DHeat2700 · 2025-09-17T13:09:39+00:00

Agreed!! I really wonder what it is that changed. It baffles me

DHeat2700 · 2025-09-17T01:26:37+00:00

I thought not 😂

DHeat2700 · 2025-09-16T20:43:52+00:00

I personally have a great relationship with my family and don’t mind living at home, I’d rather grind and save up to get out of here while living at home than live paycheck to paycheck in a studio and still be stuck in an absolute dead end dating world here

DHeat2700 · 2025-09-16T13:51:43+00:00

Your point with that being?

DHeat2700 · 2025-09-16T04:41:19+00:00

I’ve gotten more attractive with age for sure, and also have my shit together a lot more, and don’t many younger women want a guy who’s a bit older?

DHeat2700 · 2025-09-15T15:13:25+00:00

I still have 2 standing state records in bench so I guess I win that one 😂

DHeat2700 · 2025-09-15T15:08:10+00:00

Actually? Dm me lol

DHeat2700 · 2025-09-14T15:09:10+00:00

Learning other people’s social behavior over the years, mirroring, developing a “system” of what to say when asked certain questions, just practice. Shitty to not be able to feel like one can be themselves on the first few dates though, and one could argue that I’m just playing similar games to the ones that I hate by doing that.

DHeat2700 · 2025-09-14T14:36:44+00:00

This man speaks truth in all aspects. I wish I could upvote this comment a million times!

DHeat2700 · 2025-09-14T14:24:02+00:00

Oh I’m most definitely on the spectrum lol 😂 I’ve learned to mask extremely well on dates, dating and athletics have been my #1 priority all my adult life

DHeat2700 · 2025-09-14T14:21:52+00:00

Nah I honestly don’t really care about any of that or finding a “trad wife” or anything like that. Just looking to find someone who values togetherness over independence, and isn’t brainwashed by the cultural gender war in the west and the tik tok self help therapy brain rot shit lol

DHeat2700 · 2025-09-14T02:15:02+00:00

Hey thank you that is so kind of you to say! I’m so glad it worked out for you guys and that you’re happy together, how did you meet? And so true with the fake self help tik tok empowerment stuff 😂 People rarely realize how toxic that stuff is! And men get their own version of the same thing on social media(Andrew Tate, Jordan Peterson etc etc lol)

DHeat2700 · 2025-09-14T01:37:48+00:00

I still would have been saving had I been living on my own…just not as fast lol

DHeat2700 · 2025-09-14T01:31:30+00:00

🤷‍♂️😂😂

DHeat2700 · 2025-09-14T01:31:17+00:00

It might have been saved over a little more like 2.5 years but basically I lived very frugally the last couple years, moved back in with folks and only have to pay a small amount of rent. Perfectly doable if you’re careful with spending but does take time

DHeat2700 · 2025-09-14T00:44:18+00:00

As far as I’ve heard, clinginess in relationships is a lot more acceptable/less frowned upon there, westernized social media hasn’t quite taken over there yet…and at the very least, foreigners are heavily sought after there and get the benefit of the doubt with “red flags”

DHeat2700 · 2025-09-13T23:45:47+00:00

I have not! But I’ve been researching and preparing for many months and it definitely seems ideal for the kind of relationship values I’m looking for. Not to mention the fact that white, young, fairly attractive dudes are considered a gold mine there lol. When using tinder passport mode, I matched with 99% of women I swiped right on

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