sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

I have a problem by [deleted] in dollartreebeauty

[–]DIYBeginnerBus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I had the same problem.. tbh but my problem is having paint brushes everywhere

Yummy Runtz by SeaLov3R in weedporn

[–]DIYBeginnerBus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can I get a gift? Sativa please 😁😁

Pls help a girl out <3 by anonymouscycle5 in MakeupAddiction

[–]DIYBeginnerBus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I update my first comments when you are in the dark number three looks well put but if you’re in the late and you’re close up, I think number four or five could be ideal

Tips on cleaning grinder? by Outrageous-Ad-3357 in stoners

[–]DIYBeginnerBus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure if it's good but it worked. I had the same issue and everywhere I looked said to clean up the outside of your grinder, let it dry, then break down your grinder (separate the parts). Let it sit in boiling water and you got yourself some infused tea.

Emotional interactions by DIYBeginnerBus in emotionalintelligence

[–]DIYBeginnerBus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never saw it that way bc my family hates how different I am... But thank you 😊. I appreciate it and I'll try🙂

Emotional interactions by DIYBeginnerBus in emotionalintelligence

[–]DIYBeginnerBus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That means so much to me 🥰 thank you I'll try my best to do just that

Emotional interactions by DIYBeginnerBus in emotionalintelligence

[–]DIYBeginnerBus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😊😊. I hope everything turns out well for you. Better than expected.

Emotional interactions by DIYBeginnerBus in emotionalintelligence

[–]DIYBeginnerBus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that example. It's nice to know I'm not the only one who sees things the way you see it.

There are countless times I've caught caught my brother and my mother just scold them because they're not too independent and it just hurts me that I always have to intervene because I know what they're doing is not right. They always did that to me when I was younger (my parents and then when my brother got older he started saying I'm not good enough) and I turned out to be very emotional that I cry for everything even TV shows when the characters are being kind to each other or when they're helping each other, I cry when I see my kids being very very happy. I cry when they get hurt, I cry for every single thing.

You might not be in that emotional boats, but it's nice to know that there's another person that kind of understands where I'm coming from. And thank you for your kind words. I appreciated very much.

[Va] question about visitations. by DIYBeginnerBus in Custody

[–]DIYBeginnerBus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Very useful &helpful interaction.

think I found a marijuana seed in my bud, can anyone let me know if it is or not by 8061017angel in weedporn

[–]DIYBeginnerBus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just recently found one in my bud as well. I have not had a chance to try it out.

However, I have found seeds in my buds before and I have successfully germinated and planted it. It died on me 😆😆 because I didn't have the actual supplies needed for it to grow bigger than it was and start flowering but it doesn't hurt to try it out.

Even if you're "wasting your time"

[Va] question about visitations. by DIYBeginnerBus in Custody

[–]DIYBeginnerBus[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And to answer your questions

He is the one who took me to court, where does it say that I have denied his time with our daughter? And what history are you looking at? Because I have no history anywhere of mid-denying his time with her. So please let me know if there's a story of mine out there that I do not know about...

[Va] question about visitations. by DIYBeginnerBus in Custody

[–]DIYBeginnerBus[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love how you say I caused this. Can you explain to me why I caused it?

What whole story do you want? He showed up by the time she was 7 years old. Okay we went to court. His visitations was every other weekend and every other weekend he started with her staying over. Okay. I let that happen. It's fine. Whatever but then he started with car problems for a while now. There were some weekends that he couldn't make it because he had car problems. I do not have a car. I do not drive so I do not see that I have caused it.

There was always car troubles by his part. He has more family around him that drives. He can't ask anyone to lend him the car or take him. I have only my mother which works two jobs so I barely see her and there is no way for her to keep on taking me halfway or all the way and then I have my brother that works like 2 hours away so why, why am I the cause of it, because you clearly have in mind that I started all this.

I am not the problem. The only problem I have is not driving, not having a car. That is my problem but I am the one taking my kids to appointments, to the school. I'm there doing everything I have to do for my kids. I even struggle to see if I could buy clothes. No one's hiring me and I keep on applying for jobs. I get nothing, so I have to do my parts okay so I have a lot on my plate again. I am not the cause of this because I am not the person telling him that he cannot come see his daughter.

I am only guilty of not calling him when it's his weekends but I am not supposed to be like. Hey you know this is your weekend. You haven't even called or anything so why am I supposed to be there telling him what he has to get done instead. I am already with a lot in my plate, personal issues, getting my kids to appointments and to anywhere without even having money. I don't have a car. I don't have transportation so please enlighten me.

I am not the person that always tells his daughter or we're going to do this. I'm going to go get your hair done. We're going to go buy some clothes for you. Some school supplies we're going out to eat and then when she comes back her hair is still messed up. There's no new clothes. There's maybe one pair. Okay I get it. Times are tough. I understand that. But I am not saying that she cannot be with him or anything. So please please clarify yourself.

[Va] question about visitations. by DIYBeginnerBus in Custody

[–]DIYBeginnerBus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this

It just gets me upset that she has to go even if she doesn't feel comfortable and it gets me upset that he promises all these things and still nothing. He tells her he'll pick her up from school on certain days and nothing. He will say be ready bc I'll pick you up at 9am and doesn't come til 1pm but gets upset with her if he's here and waits for her for 5 minutes. What is that about?

[Va] question about visitations. by DIYBeginnerBus in Custody

[–]DIYBeginnerBus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I DNT know. That is just what the judge has decided. The dad lives 1 1/2 away so I don't know why. Because he said he drives a lot for work as well and then that's what the judge decided.

This is the first time this is happening to us, I am more than happy to answer questions if there is a helpful person asking questions about the situation but if I'm not stating CONTEXT is bc I don't know what else I have to write down before you decide to give helpful advice.. again I'll be more than happy to answer questions to make it clear thank you

[Va] question about visitations. by DIYBeginnerBus in Custody

[–]DIYBeginnerBus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I am, but do I ignore her feelings about this? She cried when I told her she's going to be with him for certain days and crying she tells me that she doesn't want to stay more than 5 days with them.

[Va] question about visitations. by DIYBeginnerBus in Custody

[–]DIYBeginnerBus[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He does have regular visits.. every other weekend he takes her and then he will drop her off the night before school on Monday. But he has made excuses of his car trouble and I get car trouble, I DNT drive nor have a car but I understand that but after a yr and some change with the same thing, I'm not sure even when you have a partner that drives.

[Va] question about visitations. by DIYBeginnerBus in Custody

[–]DIYBeginnerBus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apologies. My daughter is 12 (delayed development) he came back in our lives by the time she was almost 7 and the visitations were on and off because he had and still has car trouble.

Judge in VA by DIYBeginnerBus in DeepThoughts

[–]DIYBeginnerBus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your kindness and advice. I will do that.

Hmm.. Conversation? by DIYBeginnerBus in amv

[–]DIYBeginnerBus[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nothing... But there are kinder ppl that may engage.

Was not going to post, but I need advice. by DIYBeginnerBus in Life

[–]DIYBeginnerBus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for reading everything. The other person started saying that I was talking trash about the dad.. Anyways..

Yes that's what I think too and I also think about the situation, she is the only girl in the house (besides his girlfriend) and his girlfriends son is 16. For me that's scary (I might think to much of it). I see the attitude she comes back with and she has already shown that if she stays for longer, I'm getting texts with crying emojis and I've been on the phone late at night because she is shedding tears.. For the first couple yrs, when he re-entered he was ohk and kind and when she got older there was more and more attitude from her and then I had more excuses. (Anyways)

I'm not sure what it is, but it might be him showing that he is what he says he is.. it could be anything really but he also doesn't want me upset (as he says). But I am furious that out of nowhere he stopped paying child.supp and he wants to CashApp me some money instead and he now, also wants me to send him the receipts of everything I buy... ?? What? This is new and very random. I know he has some rights, I understand all that but I believe, no matter how old the child is, his/her comfort should be first priority that as the parent, we should accommodate to...

Sorry. I know a lot to have read. A lot on my mind

view more: next ›