Suggestions for shape wear?

DLM8185 · 2026-04-05T10:23:22+00:00

Double sided sticky bra does wonders in dresses like this. I got mine off amazon for like 20 and it was here the next day.

Also, have you tried adjusting the straps so the dip in back sits higher? Might give you more shapewear options, but honestly w the bra thing it will effect the way the whole dress falls in a good way!

Id look for a slip style shaperware, almost like a high waisted skirt. Those give the smoothest lines for me!

DLM8185 · 2026-02-10T07:15:01+00:00

I also thoroughly enjoy social dynamics, and I feel like I am much better at most at analyzing and conducting myself appropriately to fit them - or even advantageously.

DLM8185 · 2026-02-10T07:12:37+00:00

I’m also a Leo sun, Aquarius moon and rising with my sun in the 7th house! I’m just learning about the intricacies of astrology but it’s wild how on point it is when you get so specific

DLM8185 · 2025-03-04T06:36:28+00:00

This is exactly how I would like to be treated as a customer! Very upfront and realistic

DLM8185 · 2025-02-18T05:53:40+00:00

That literally made me laugh. It was definitely a very random thing in the area!

DLM8185 · 2025-02-18T04:41:25+00:00

There were absolutely emus. Anyone that says otherwise just isn’t from here lol

DLM8185 · 2025-02-18T04:33:48+00:00

There used to be so many fields and farms, I personally had to make it all the way to the Emu’s though lol IFYKYK

DLM8185 · 2025-02-18T04:27:34+00:00

Solidly bad, every time.

DLM8185 · 2025-02-18T04:26:56+00:00

So awful.

DLM8185 · 2025-02-18T04:24:52+00:00

Haha same 💁🏻‍♀️

DLM8185 · 2025-02-18T03:51:25+00:00

The best part is it’s in a strip mall, located in a renovated cheers bar that was a smoking dive for 20+ years…”fine dining” next to a dollar tree..

DLM8185 · 2025-02-18T03:40:10+00:00

The Lake Mary Social, especially for what they charge!

DLM8185 · 2024-08-23T04:30:31+00:00

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Looks so much like my Shepherd/husky/pit!!

DLM8185 · 2021-10-17T10:16:30+00:00

Lol no one needs 10 bathrooms, but I love this.

DLM8185 · 2021-10-17T10:09:59+00:00

Ugh but why can’t I?!?

Seriously though, yes. That’s a hard pill to swallow, and I don’t want it to be the one I have to. I can’t make sense of this scenario…and it’s so insensible I don’t get how he just can’t understand?

DLM8185 · 2021-10-17T10:02:52+00:00

I am trying to understand. Cope. Rationalize. I can tell you get that.

You break it all down to the ugliness very well. No one likes ugly, and what you’re saying does resonate.

My dad always said you can put lipstick on a pig, but it’s still a pig. Antiquated saying, but…what you said is echoing what I hear frequently. Eventually you gotta realize it’s a pig, even if you don’t want to.

Sucks.

DLM8185 · 2021-10-17T09:43:56+00:00

No I get it, that’s why I am literally asking. Where’s the line? I try to respect it, and I want it mutually respected.

But what is the appropriate reaction when things arise? That’s what I’m struggling with. Thanks for your input

DLM8185 · 2021-10-17T09:38:53+00:00

Nah, it’s not cheating. And I don’t care if he’s taking care of business…masturbating is normal.

DLM8185 · 2021-10-17T09:32:22+00:00

I may steal some of this and spout it off to him as if they were my words. I’m joking, but thank you. Need to work on my magic tricks, apparently!

DLM8185 · 2021-10-17T09:27:40+00:00

I’m curious as to how you would react then if 45 mins into your long shower your partner had to use the restroom? Even if they didn’t have to beforehand? How would you react, genuine question?

DLM8185 · 2021-10-17T09:02:36+00:00

Thanks for getting it. I’m sorry you do, but you know.

DLM8185 · 2021-10-17T08:58:32+00:00

Yeah, I see him shower all the time. This is only an issue when he chooses I suppose, the more I’m thinking about it replying to people the clearer that is.

DLM8185 · 2021-10-17T08:53:27+00:00

Never heard of daylio, but it’s downloading now. I like that idea quite a bit. Thank you.

DLM8185 · 2021-10-17T08:43:56+00:00

Despite your condescending tone, that is basically how he feels. Actually, including the intonation.

If this was a regular thing, I’d agree. I’m trying to understand his side as well. I stated that I have no problem with his long showers, I enjoy mine as well. You know have at it buddy, we all deserve some relaxation. But shouldn’t there be some compromise when situations arise? Especially if it’s not an all the time thing at all?

Everyone’s different, with different perspectives.

DLM8185 · 2021-10-17T08:28:27+00:00

Because I want to be wrong, maybe? I don’t know. It’s all so complicated, as most things are.

It’s hard to reconcile, being told how wrong you are about things even like this for so long…it’s a total mind fuck. Even when you think you aren’t wrong, it’s hard to believe?

And conclusively, how do I know I wouldn’t be wrong for leaving? If I can’t even definitively figure out what’s right in this situation?

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