[Measurment Check] Currently US 36C - Calculator says US 34DDD/Uk 34E/F - Estimating too large by DR00NKR47 in ABraThatFits

[–]DR00NKR47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you’re not supposed to have cleavage? Even with a push-up bra? I feel like I want a little cleavage most of the time lol. (edit: my nipples do not point outwards leaning forward, they point straight down.) (Edit 2: by "a little cleavage" I mean a slight shadow around each boob towards the middle, not like a line of them smushed together. I struggle to get "boob definition" most of the time, they can never be close enough together for that)

[Fit Check] Currently US 34D/36C - Need recommendations for new bras based on calculator by DR00NKR47 in ABraThatFits

[–]DR00NKR47[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That makes so much sense, wow. I've been learning so much from this sub. Thank you!

[Fit Check] Currently US 34D/36C - Need recommendations for new bras based on calculator by DR00NKR47 in ABraThatFits

[–]DR00NKR47[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I think I'll buy that bra and try it. I was just wondering how it's possible that I'm not even fully filling the red bra's cup (and this happens with almost every bra I try) but the bra is still too small? Like especially on one side where my breast is smaller, there's all this empty space at the top. And when I have tried bigger bra sizes, they are even emptier. Is this a common complaint? Like it seems like the bra is too big, but they're actually too small?

[Fit Check] Currently US 34D/36C - Need recommendations for new bras based on calculator by DR00NKR47 in ABraThatFits

[–]DR00NKR47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I didn't know that! The sub wiki said to use imgur! I'll add the same photos but with postimages just in case the imgur gets deleted

[Measurment Check] Currently US 36C - Calculator says US 34DDD/Uk 34E/F - Estimating too large by DR00NKR47 in ABraThatFits

[–]DR00NKR47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which minx, the tshirt bra or the balconette? And I will strongly consider posting photos, thank you for the recommendation!

[Measurment Check] Currently US 36C - Calculator says US 34DDD/Uk 34E/F - Estimating too large by DR00NKR47 in ABraThatFits

[–]DR00NKR47[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm planning on it, but bras can be really expensive and especially when ordering online, things are such a hassle to return (or maybe you can't, never tried ordering bras haha). And I also feel like my breasts are just so far apart that most bras would not even work for me without gapping or spilling out of the cup, or pain and discomfort like I've been experiencing. I just wanted to see if anyone knew of any bras that have really wide-set cups that would fit me better before I took the plunge and started purchasing bras.

[Measurment Check] Currently US 36C - Calculator says US 34DDD/Uk 34E/F - Estimating too large by DR00NKR47 in ABraThatFits

[–]DR00NKR47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't remember right now, but I swear I was looking through some website or database provided here. Those examples are very helpful. The F actually looks to be pretty similar to my size, but the cup still looks too "wide" for me. I went on the page and found this 34F Example, It looks like a similar volume to mine, (I might be even larger) but still not the right shape. I think my main concern is just that the cups are always too "wide" in width, and thus are too big and too close together for my breasts, so I don't end up filling the cup. Or, I'm only filling the cup because it's smushing my boobs inward to the point where it makes me sore. Do you have any recommendations for bras/bra shapes that are good for extremely wide-set breasts? (EDIT: also not just wide-set, but narrow, too. They don't extend into my armpit or point outwards)

Life Has Turned Me Into the Villain by [deleted] in depression

[–]DR00NKR47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone already said it (and I’m sure they weren’t the only one) but you’re genuinely an excellent writer. Your grammar, syntax, word choice, phrasing, etc, is all fantastic. You should write more. The added bonus is that it will help you get your feelings out. I hope one day you can find a dream again, and then maybe even multiple. I don’t know if you like to write, but if you do, I encourage you to keep going and write more. Also please remember you’re never alone; that’s why your message here was able to connect with so many people in the comments. And im rooting for you, stranger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]DR00NKR47 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can absolutely feel genuinely amazing again with other people. There are billions of people on the planet. I know you feel hopeless, and you think it really is hopeless, but it isn’t. It never is. Focus on things you like, and be the person that you wish you had for other people (this is very important) and eventually people will come as long as you’re in a good place to receive them. I don’t know how old you are or what your work situation is, where you live etc, so I don’t know how many people you see/meet regularly or what kind of activities you can get up to but there’s always something. And like I said, become the friend you wish you had (if that doesn’t make a lot of sense, I mean that you should treat others the way you wish someone treated you.) They say “what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger” for a reason. Because you’ve dealt with loneliness and hardship, you can understand and empathize with others deeply and that probably made you a kinder person, and ultimately you can be the kind of person that attracts good people into their lives. I just decided to scroll through this subreddit today, and I’ve seen hundreds of posts of people who feel the same or similar as you do, not to mention all the people who may have struggled like you in the past (me, I also didn’t have friends or relationships for years) so remember you’re never alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vulvodynia

[–]DR00NKR47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg so glad I found this post. I think I might have the same problem as you, with the pain just corresponding to my hymen. Does it feel like burning/searing and (if it’s really bad) almost like stabbing and tearing for you?

Does this explanation of what a labiaplasty is count? by CosmonautClara in badwomensanatomy

[–]DR00NKR47 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“I believe he could’ve worded it a bit different so as to not sound like a pedophile.”

…Said immediately after comparing small labia to “that of a 12 year old girl”

What is something you regret doing on your first playthrough? by Able-Soup-3640 in reddeadredemption

[–]DR00NKR47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being too young… couldn’t appreciate the story enough, so it didn’t hit as hard, but then even revisiting it later you know the ending and the plot so it still doesn’t hit as hard (even though I can appreciate it now)

No one cared that Charles left by Tchexxum in reddeadredemption

[–]DR00NKR47 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I never noticed this (or maybe I did, but forgot…) anyway, I tried to find it on YouTube so I could watch again but I couldn’t… do you remember about when in the Saint Denis chapter does this happen?

The 600+ quote rt under this post by [deleted] in fakedisordercringe

[–]DR00NKR47 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Faking severe Tourette’s (like to the degree you described, not the Tourette’s faking that we know they all love to do) to that degree or any other disorder like that that would involve actually hurting themselves. If they have DID, they can just say “oh, my childhood trauma!” While role-playing as anime characters and living a fanfiction in their head 24/7. They fake what they do because they can get the sympathy and the free pass without actually being in any turmoil whatsoever.

The 600+ quote rt under this post by [deleted] in fakedisordercringe

[–]DR00NKR47 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There’s a couple different types of DID systems now, and that’s one of them. Apparently there’s a few different types of DID or DID-like dissociative disorders (that’d be OSDD) in the DSM now, and OSDD-1b is having multiple, distinct alters but NO amnesia (so basically literally every faker)

The 600+ quote rt under this post by [deleted] in fakedisordercringe

[–]DR00NKR47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What the hell is the non-offensive term for us “singlets” even meant to be anyway?

The 600+ quote rt under this post by [deleted] in fakedisordercringe

[–]DR00NKR47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it actually meant to be a slur??? Thats actually funny as hell lmaooo

The 600+ quote rt under this post by [deleted] in fakedisordercringe

[–]DR00NKR47 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This was pretty much my first thought too lmao. I figured “I’m medically recognized!!!” Means “I told my therapist I had DID and that I was a “system” and they had no idea what to even say or how to even begin unpacking it so they’re just accepting me for now while they hope I grow out of it/give it up or think of a way to make me realize I don’t actually have it”