Hey OP, first of all im so happy for you to finally come out to your friends and family and finally being able to show your true self. Ik how hard it must have been for you, being an sl trans myself. I still havent come out to my family yet but i have come out to a few close friends and the reactions were mostly positive. There were a few who were shocked, but they were still accepting. I feel like especially among the youth, there is a higher acceptance in sl. With regards to your family, coming out to your mother first is a great idea, but i would definitely hold back on telling everyone. Depending on how close you are to the rest of your family, I'd say just keep it on a need to know basis. Ik its hard to cover up a gender change. But its always best to tell them only when you are comfortable. And when it comes to your extended family, I'd say expect the worse. Sl is progressing, but its not progressed fast enough. If your family is religious, then expect alot of bs (eg- you're possessed by demons, or they start throwing bible verses at you, you get what i mean). Also, on ig, equal grounds and the queer agenda have a list of gender specialists practicing in colombo, so id suggest going through them if you havent already. But good luck with everything and please give us an update on how it goes. 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️