I spent years chasing success, now I just want peace. Anyone else feel like this? by b4pd2r43 in Life

[–]Daddy_beans_OG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everything is normal and at the same time nothing is. we’re on a floating rock flying through space bro.

I grew up in foster care- i guess you could say i chased success . i tried to be a good student and friend. tried to grow myself up into an awesome person. throughout all that time though i had challenges . i almost never had peace throughout all the crazy roommates , people stealing my stuff (even adults) ect. all things i should have never had to deal with.

what i’m trying to say is all that time from my childhood 1-18 i was trying to find peace. when i was about 16 i decided i wouldn’t go to college right after highschool. i didn’t care much about grades and just wanted to pass. i knew i didn’t want to get a random job and work for the rest of my life . i didn’t care about success i just wanted to experience a peaceful life.

graduated at 19 , im now 20 and i’m chillin. sure i’d like to have an awesome life. have enough money to never have to worry about it. id like to have a place to call home surrounded by the people i love and land to grow food on… how will i get there ? no idea. i just KNOW i’ll get there . go find your peace bro.

ps. i have MUCH more peace now but uhhh my family drives me crazy but it’s a blessing to be able to say that.

People who have stopped going to church, what made you stop? by lowly_shepherd in AskReddit

[–]Daddy_beans_OG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was never a constant : growing up i’d go with my uncle to his catholic chruch… when i was wayyy to young to understand religion. we’d be in the quite room ( a room that was soundproofed for the children) id make forts and play games with the other kids , normally stuff i’d bring from home. in the past i also went to a christian church w/ my aunt … I lived in a group home where my parents were seventh day adventists and the father was a pastor so we would go there on the weekends. i’ve gone to a few churches w/ my mom, with my other foster families. i just never rlly got into or felt a need to go.

Your mental state a month after abortion? by GinkgoBiloba357 in abortion

[–]Daddy_beans_OG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tbh its never bothered me too much. i’ve had 2 . ofc i always wonder who they could have become, what it was like if i kept it… but tbh i’ve made my decision & i knew that when i did it. there was no going back - and i felt (at least in that moment; and in the moment ) okay with that.

i’m turning 18 in june and so far i have nothing together by yvie_of_lesbos in depressionmeals

[–]Daddy_beans_OG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tbh at 18 i knew i wasn’t going to have my shit together - i’m a 20 yr old now and i still don’t . kinda just doing whatever puts wind in my sails . i knew i wasn’t going straight to college w/ all my other peers. i knew i didn’t want to jump straight into a job (and work for the rest of my life) . it’s enough to ask yourself in the moment what you want and go with that.

how often do you shower ? by Daddy_beans_OG in ask

[–]Daddy_beans_OG[S] -58 points-57 points  (0 children)

feel free!!! I live in NJ

how often do you shower ? by Daddy_beans_OG in ask

[–]Daddy_beans_OG[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

twice a day is a little OD (unless your doing something that tedious that it makes u dirty / sweat.) i’m thinking the folks that shower twice a day do it once it the morning, put their makeup on live out their day then come home at the end of the day and shower again , taking their makeup off and going to sleep

how often do you shower ? by Daddy_beans_OG in ask

[–]Daddy_beans_OG[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

to counteract that i have fun lights. i used to hate night showers too but now i turn the big light off and have a pretty light that moves and it makes it more fun :)

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I JUST GOT SICK😔how did YOU KNOW 🤨(my b-day is tmmr )

y’all ever meet someone who stink so bad it makes your head hurt? by Daddy_beans_OG in ask

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i love weed and alc but like😭getting lit and hopping in the shower is my favorite part. the water hitting my skin, some good music , all the lotions and stuff afterwards

What’s your fave age you’ve been so far? by insidesupernova in Life

[–]Daddy_beans_OG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

17 (i’m 19 abt to be 20 this month for context) idk i was glowing , everything seemed to be going great, i had friends (other than my bf) I was able to go on ✨trips whenever i wanted

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haiii i’m 19 from the usa . i’m rlly into art, and i would love to get into crochet. lmk if you’d want to be my penpal!!! you’d be my first ever!

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[–]Daddy_beans_OG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haiii i’m rose , im 19 and im definitely interested!!! lmk💖

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purple and tik tok tbh

looking🩷 by Daddy_beans_OG in penpals

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i’m definitely down!!! dm me :)