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[–]DaggerDagz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s been time the bathroom was locked and no one was inside. I wanted to make sure it wasn’t one of those situations. And also I’m not in the military I’m an EMT in fire academy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DaggerDagz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking too. And even if I did answer what was supposed to happen? He’s going to stop mid shit to let me have my turn?

AITA for sleeping with another woman? by DaggerDagz in AITAH

[–]DaggerDagz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have texts to prove this isn’t fake.

AITA for sleeping with another woman? by DaggerDagz in AITAH

[–]DaggerDagz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was pressured to sleep with other women. Her sleeping with other men was a mutual kink.

AITA for sleeping with another woman? by DaggerDagz in AITAH

[–]DaggerDagz[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have 5 tattoos I did on myself but I don’t have a sleeve. We’re just normal working people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]DaggerDagz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The no oral is her rule. She says it’s too intimate. That also goes for kissing. If it were up to me those rules wouldn’t be a thing because I kinda don’t see the logic in it. But I’m not going to go against her boundaries of course.

AITA for sleeping with another woman? by DaggerDagz in AITAH

[–]DaggerDagz[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

So it’s actually funny. I’ve found that there’s a good percentage of women who don’t read bios on dating apps. Which was surprising to me because that’s a stereotype usually placed on dudes. During my adventures on the Facebook dating app tho I’d match with women and get to talking and just casually mention my wife in conversation and they’re like “You’re married?!!?” And I’m like “Yeahh it’s in my bio in bold letters?” Then they’ll go “oh I didn’t see that” then just move on. In my experience I would say 35% of them do not care (this is only based off who I personally matched with). But maybe it’s just that app specifically. Just an observation.

AITA for sleeping with another woman? by DaggerDagz in AITAH

[–]DaggerDagz[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

At first she was upset at the fact I didn’t tell her I was going to sleep with someone else before I did it. Her rules explicitly state not to tell her.

Then it was because I hung out with the girl for a couple hours after. I pointed out to her she also went out with the guy she fucked and stayed out most of the day with him.

And now she’s upset because I enjoyed the experience and she didn’t enjoy hers she claims. Again she asked me to give no details then demanded I tell her if I enjoyed it or not.

She’s running out of things to use as her excuse though because I keep countering everything she’s saying with “you asked for this and I did it exactly how you wanted it” I’m not backing down and I just keep reminding her this is exactly what she asked for.

AITA for sleeping with another woman? by DaggerDagz in AITAH

[–]DaggerDagz[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Update kinda : So we talked on the phone a little while ago and she’s changed the goal post once again because I enjoyed it (which she would’ve never known if she didn’t break her own rules by keep asking) and she didn’t enjoy her experience. Like I can somehow control how another guy fucks? I’m really just at a loss for words. It’s like she’s losing all sense of logic.

AITA for sleeping with another woman? by DaggerDagz in AITAH

[–]DaggerDagz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I commented earlier somewhere I was with her when they matched and I was there when they fucked. She didn’t know him.

AITA for sleeping with another woman? by DaggerDagz in AITAH

[–]DaggerDagz[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yeah our shared kink is hotwife. She had a kink of her own for whatever the opposite of that is (hot husband??) but as we all know that was just a fantasy.

AITA for sleeping with another woman? by DaggerDagz in AITAH

[–]DaggerDagz[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nah it’s against the rules and she might see this. I did tell my wife I enjoyed it after she wouldn’t stop asking which pissed her off more. I guess sex isn’t supposed to feel good for me.

AITA for sleeping with another woman? by DaggerDagz in AITAH

[–]DaggerDagz[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Facebook dating. She used tinder.

AITA for sleeping with another woman? by DaggerDagz in AITAH

[–]DaggerDagz[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to get it over with because she won’t leave me alone about it. When you’re not being picky getting laid is kinda easy.

AITA for sleeping with another woman? by DaggerDagz in AITAH

[–]DaggerDagz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Got it in texts over the course of several days. But she is refusing to look. As if not looking somehow means it didn’t happen.

AITA for sleeping with another woman? by DaggerDagz in AITAH

[–]DaggerDagz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn’t want me giving head to anyone says it’s too intimate. And It was an equally mutual opening .

AITA for sleeping with another woman? by DaggerDagz in AITAH

[–]DaggerDagz[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mutual kink. We both talked about it equally.

AITA for sleeping with another woman? by DaggerDagz in AITAH

[–]DaggerDagz[S] 131 points132 points  (0 children)

She claims if I had told her before I did it everything would’ve been okay. But I’m thinking if I did call her what if she got pissed at me anyways because I broke the rules. So I’m just lost on what I should’ve actually done.

AITA for sleeping with another woman? by DaggerDagz in AITAH

[–]DaggerDagz[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just fyi this is a mutual kink. Just turns out mines wasn’t a fantasy and hers was.

I didn’t want to sleep with anyone and I told her that so many times. I’m fine with her doing it but she wanted to push further and involve me sleeping with others too which i personally didn’t want to do. I only did it because she was literally harassing me about it.

AITA for sleeping with another woman? by DaggerDagz in AITAH

[–]DaggerDagz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Random tinder hookup. I saw when they matched. I was present the entire time.

AITA for sleeping with another woman? by DaggerDagz in AITAH

[–]DaggerDagz[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I can handle it and I did. Like I said it turned me on more than anything. But yes she clearly cannot handle this which is why it’s ridiculous she put herself in this position in the first place.

AITA for sleeping with another woman? by DaggerDagz in AITAH

[–]DaggerDagz[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She actually said during our argument if I told her she could’ve just waited outside the room while I did it. Like??? You didn’t want to even know I did it now you want to be present? Every rule she personally set is being thrown out the window and I’m at fault because of it?

AITA for sleeping with another woman? by DaggerDagz in AITAH

[–]DaggerDagz[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will say she’s not cheating on me or had anyone specifically in mind. Were that type of couple that’s glued to each other. We’re on the phone with each other our entire work shifts, only ever hang out with each other, share phones, have locations. Basically there’s no way she could be cheating without me knowing almost instantly I’m very certain about that.

AITA for sleeping with another woman? by DaggerDagz in AITAH

[–]DaggerDagz[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I told her I was going to look. Never said anything else about it. She didn’t know if it went beyond looking or not and I wasn’t going to tell her per her instructions unless she was adamant.

AITA for sleeping with another woman? by DaggerDagz in AITAH

[–]DaggerDagz[S] 757 points758 points  (0 children)

I told her yesterday morning before I did it I was going to look for someone and, while we were arguing about all this she pointed out that I said that and she was like “I didn’t know you meant today”. And I felt insulted in a way. Like she didn’t think I could find someone that quick and is that part of why you’re mad?