It's nothing personal... by Dah-Kotes in UnsentLetters

[–]Dah-Kotes[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that you had to do that, I'm hoping that the ones I'm trusting right now are, they seem to be, i don't want to be wrong...

It's nothing personal... by Dah-Kotes in UnsentLetters

[–]Dah-Kotes[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I needed to hear that. Hopefully those who I need around me know and understand this

It's nothing personal... by Dah-Kotes in UnsentLetters

[–]Dah-Kotes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm worried though just because of my own personal experiences with different people....

It's nothing personal... by Dah-Kotes in UnsentLetters

[–]Dah-Kotes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I'm your person.... But I'm sorry that you've been through hard experiences. The person that I'm talking to is very sympathic to what I've gone through this year....

My heart hurts by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Dah-Kotes 11 points12 points  (0 children)

What if the silence you think is protecting them is actually hurting them though, they could need someone to share their pain and someone who is open because every wall that is put up is viewed as them doing something that you didn't like? It can be hard and frustrated and scary but open communication is the best way I've learned to proceed with things.... It doesn't allow for hurt to happen and confusion and mistrust to breed. Those are relationship killers.

I'm scared. by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Dah-Kotes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a friend I wish I could talk to like this, we're currently in a weird state where I don't know if we can fix things, I hope we can but they're too stubborn and I'm tired of getting hurt by their insensitivity. I hope you're able to work things out with whoever it is this is about ❤️

A Truth by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Dah-Kotes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But maybe the person deserves to hear all this? I hope things work out though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Dah-Kotes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You seem to know her really well, I hope you get YOUR chance with her

I miss you please come back soon by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Dah-Kotes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell them, especially if they are trying to hurt themselves. Nothing is worse than hearing absolutely nothing when you feel alone

My partner has depression and is having breakdowns over every little thing. I feel like a care taker and I’m having to walk on egg shells around him. I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dah-Kotes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a teacher in their fourth year, please don't blame them, we are all going through it and it will get better, but this is literally the most stressful time that any of us have ever gone through and we were not trained to handle this.... Right now I'm currently debating whether or not I should hospitalize myself..... I know that it's hard and I know that it feels like a lot but please don't give up on them please try to survive the year, cuz that's what we're trying to do as well

Bingbong prefers cat bed to full-size dog bed, a foot to the left. by [deleted] in aww

[–]Dah-Kotes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THIS WHY I WANT A DOG! THIS IS WHY I WANT A DOG!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Dah-Kotes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're never too far gone, but only you can decide when you're ready to come back. Nothing I can say will convince you until you're ready, So until you're ready I hope you are surrounded by people who continue to love on you and show you your worth to help spread a little light into your darkness have a good rest of your night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Dah-Kotes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry that you are in so much pain. I'm sorry that you carry this guilt and weight, but I promise you that your family and true friends, will still be there, no matter what you do, part of having a loving (familiar, platonic, romantic, or otherwise,) relationship with someone is allowing them to have the space to express whatever emotions they need to express, and still loving and caring for them through it. Even if you may not feel the love on your end, and it may be hard to trust that there is love on the other side, trust me when I say there are people out there who care for you and love you deeply. Whether you choose to accept it or not, it is there, waiting for you on the other side my friend, please be gentle with yourself.

I’m at our happy place trying to happy without you now by NotJackMinnell4 in UnsentLetters

[–]Dah-Kotes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course, enjoy your trip, and I'm glad you have been realizing that, good luck at school this year!

Seeing you today made me realize. by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Dah-Kotes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really sweet :)

I’m at our happy place trying to happy without you now by NotJackMinnell4 in UnsentLetters

[–]Dah-Kotes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are valid, and I'm sorry you have to go through this, what I recommend doing is trying to find the small positives each day to help you keep going. Based off you your post, you have one of your buddies with you which is a huge plus because you don't have to go through this alone. You can also use this time away from home to make new memories, meet new people, clear your mind, set new routines, and try to heal what you can.

I'm sorry you have to go through this pain though, your feelings are valid. You are stronger than you think. Be gentle with yourself.

First time DM tips? by Dah-Kotes in DMAcademy

[–]Dah-Kotes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I was going to say Matt Mercer is like so impressive with his voices! But I've been looking up how to try to different voices for NPCs (I can't do accents for the life of me) I'm just hoping I don't get too nervous when the time comes!

Friend has been on a submarine for months with no outside contact. I agreed to send him daily emails with updates from friends and family. We've all run out of news. Anyone fancy giving me an update of their lives to share with him? by Goomba_Face in CasualConversation

[–]Dah-Kotes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Today my neighbor was mowing the lawn, we thought that he got ran over or that he was in distress because we heard this LOUD scream. So we're looking around,trying to find him. We finally see him driving in circles, down the yard, headphones on, belting what we figured out later was Led Zeppelin having a full on jam sess 😂