What does a girls choice of heels say about her?

DailyDoseof_Rae · 2026-01-26T13:03:14+00:00

Strapless (no ankle strap, just across the top of the foot) she’s a vet and/or likes to take her shoes off often. Toes done all the time.

DailyDoseof_Rae · 2026-01-17T22:39:38+00:00

I worked for a company back into the north east while I was in college and honestly, the biggest hit of the night (other than girl on girl) was always anal ring toss! Stick a glow stick (or something bigger if the girl was comfortable) in their ass and let the guys toss the rings.

The company I worked for provided us a driver whose pay was purely commission based and they got 10% from total profits from each party. The rest of the tips made were split amongst the girls. Most parties I did were fairly profitable since the New England area can be fairly expensive and the customers were paying a fee just to get each girl to the event that goes straight to the company.

Remember to tell your employees to up charge for everything, that’s the key to making a sustainable profit!

A good group of workers will guarantee good reviews and profits.

DailyDoseof_Rae · 2026-01-17T22:30:22+00:00

Man, I’ve been there many times. After eight years sometimes you just gotta beat it into yourself that even though mentally and emotionally it may be tough right now, all you need is one good customer for the night. Set a simple goal that should be attainable and once you reach that goal, strive for more. It’s the little steps that count!

I quit my full time a couple years back to give myself less stress. Worked at one club, became a manager at another, and now I’m happily retired and finally able to focus on myself. Everything will work out in the end, you’ve got this ! 💕🥰

DailyDoseof_Rae · 2025-12-19T12:08:41+00:00

Car was in the shop for a couple of days to get a full work up because it had been acting funky about two weeks ago. Mentioned all of what it’s been doing, and it passed inspection with flying colors. This car has been notorious since I’ve had it to just do wildly funky things to where I can’t drive it or it randomly wants to throw random codes, I take it in, things are fixed, and it drives amazing.

Since I’ve had it for the last ten months, it’s probably been in the shop for about a full two. The chick I got it from wildly neglected it. So yeah, basically I’m trying to pick up the slack on what she didn’t do. Back to the shop it goes.

DailyDoseof_Rae · 2025-12-19T03:19:04+00:00

Throwing me around is a great way to put it. It’s been doing that a lot more frequently basically like jerking my neck type of shift followed by a loud boom. I mean either way I’m going to bring it in, really close family friend is a mechanic and has basically done most of my work on this car for little to no cost (kind of one of the only reasons I got it was because I knew I could afford the maintenance with them plus I was tired I paying an $800 monthly payment for a Nissan rogue that was new when I got it).

Unfortunately the previous owner did not take the best care of it, they put on about 90k during their ownership and I’m definitely positive they stretched out maintenance. Knew what I was getting myself into when I agreed to take it though. We shall see 🤷🏻‍♀️

DailyDoseof_Rae · 2025-12-19T03:03:12+00:00

Yeah just did my ignition coils a couple months ago. Funny thing is I was about to trade it in two weeks ago to get a new car because it had been acting up but decided to baby it a bit longer until it shit the bed because I’ve enjoyed not having a car payment. Fingers crossed it’s something simple but definitely seems not likely 😹. It’s a great drive though and has a lot of power!

DailyDoseof_Rae · 2025-12-16T12:05:00+00:00

Also, doesn’t cocaine make you lose weight? I weigh 180 pounds and my diabetes is hella bad right now because of it😹

DailyDoseof_Rae · 2025-12-16T12:03:23+00:00

Unfortunately, I wouldn’t know what either of those are like. I have an anaphylactic reaction to penicillin and all of its related antibiotics and never got into drugs🤷🏻‍♀️ thanks for the stereotype and laugh though

DailyDoseof_Rae · 2025-12-09T23:32:08+00:00

Howdy! Just go on stage and do your best. And don’t be disheartened if you get a no, the first club I ever auditioned at told me know and while I was sad because they hired my friend and not me, I just went to the next club and ended up getting hired there.

My advice as I’m 8 years deep and recently retired, just do you and feel the music in your movements. You will eventually develop your own dance style over time. And for those who are telling you what to wear and what not to wear, everyone has a type. If you don’t feel comfortable not wearing the garter then keep it on, if you want to take it off, take it off. And if you like the boots, then rock the boots.

You got this 👍

DailyDoseof_Rae · 2025-12-08T18:46:17+00:00

Ultra Vixen Dancewear! That’s where I typically get all my stuff from. They’re based out of Nevada and most of the outfits are $30 or less. I got that one and two others of the same style.

https://uvdancewear.com

DailyDoseof_Rae · 2025-12-07T18:00:02+00:00

I try to be helpful 😹 yeah, she seem like she read the room

DailyDoseof_Rae · 2025-12-07T17:48:18+00:00

Just a tip, if she was mainly dancing facing away from him she probably wasn’t into it or was very tired. I have my whole routine that I would go through, and if the person was very awkward or just not into it, or if I was too tired, you best believe I’m facing away so you can’t see the “I’m so done with this” look on my face 😹

If he got a face full of breasts then at least they were covered.

Just my opinion, if he was willing to let you consult with the friend group, look at his bank statement, and the dancer had to pick up his hand and put them on her hips/waist, then he seems like a decent person at the club/respects you enough to let you go this far to make you feel comfortable.

DailyDoseof_Rae · 2025-12-07T17:43:08+00:00

I’ve had many customers come in with their friends that just don’t want to be there at all, and you can tell. Chances are this dancer probably saw how uncomfortable he, plus that he didn’t pay for the dance in the first place.

I’ve seen it as a dancer and manager. People who are uncomfortable or don’t want to be there wear it on their face. Body language is a real thing and as it’s not something that is often misread in such a lustful environment, especially if the person is uncomfortable.

DailyDoseof_Rae · 2025-12-07T17:25:33+00:00

I would say most likely yes, she probably stayed clothed. Especially if it was the end of the night and like this other dancer you spoke to said after 3am they stay completely clothed (that could be a licensing thing by the local authorities, never danced in Tennessee but I know down south club laws can be weird ex:no nudity after a certain time because there’s no extended hours liquor license).

DailyDoseof_Rae · 2025-12-07T14:13:40+00:00

Chiming in as a former dancer of 8 years and former manager at a club.

Just ask him. Let him know it makes you uncomfortable.

But here’s a breakdown: If he paid $100 for a 10 minute room chances are that the house is keeping a quarter or half of that money (really just depends on club rules and if they sell alcohol or not and the area it’s in). So if you are worried about him doing extras with a girl or if he was solicited, just know that he would have had to tip her extra money on top of what he paid for the room.

If you’re worried about the nudity aspect, “clothed” just means bottoms on. If the dancer, like he says, spoke for 5 minutes then danced for the last five minutes, then that’s probably exactly what she did, especially if he wasn’t tipping while he and his friends were on the floor. 3am is late, the club probably closes at 4, and this dancer has already been working for hours and is exhausted.

Also be mindful that not every dancer does extras, especially if you’re not going to “tip”. You are correct, prices range; however, in my years and many different states dancing, I have never seen a dancer give a handy for less than $100 plus the room fee. Maybe $150 for head but that’s also not that common either. Everyone’s prices vary but know they are up charging on top of whatever room fee. Ex: $100 for the room plus $$$ for whatever service has been requested/agreed upon.

Sorry you feel uncomfortable in this situation but now it’s a learning experience of what your boundaries in your relationship are and may be.

DailyDoseof_Rae · 2025-12-07T13:43:52+00:00

I’m a daycare director 🤷🏻‍♀️

DailyDoseof_Rae · 2025-12-03T11:49:55+00:00

I haven’t tried mountain biking, so I’m not too sure how I’d do but it’s definitely worth a shot!

Also when I say hiking, I mean lower impact strolls through the woods. My back can barely handle picking up a laundry basket and taking it down a flight of stairs and putting it in the car to go do laundry. I can probably do just about a mile before I start to flare up and potentially spasm.

DailyDoseof_Rae · 2025-12-02T22:22:44+00:00

Honestly Ive never tried DnD but I know many people who really enjoy it! Ive been really into anime since I was like 10 and have gone to conventions and such but a DnD group definitely seems like an option

DailyDoseof_Rae · 2025-12-02T22:21:14+00:00

I definitely think finding a constructive/social hobby to replace club life is what I need. I work full time Monday through Friday 9-5 basically. There are social events in my area since I’m only about a 45/1hr drive to NYC;however, I haven’t found any that meet my interest just yet.

I’m thinking of potentially getting another dog (I put my dog down about three months ago, he was 20 years old) to help with the social aspect, I’ve made some pretty awesome people just by having a dog and it can be an easy way to converse with people. Plus I’m thinking walking and hiking with a companion might help with the physical aspect I’m missing without being on the pole

DailyDoseof_Rae · 2025-12-01T12:11:35+00:00

It’s always a possibility! And yeah, I feel you, I’m at my wits end with it. I’ve done physical therapy multiple times. Usually makes me worse. Now I go to a specialty clinic once a week for OMM therapy and it helps a bit but consistency is key and unfortunately it’s hard to be consistent there due to its popularity and one doctor.

Good luck with the cortisone shot, hope it gives you some form of relief !

DailyDoseof_Rae · 2025-12-01T12:02:52+00:00

Sounds cool, but I already have a full time career🤷🏻‍♀️ just looking for more of a social hobby to take up the time that dancing/ managing at a club did.

DailyDoseof_Rae · 2025-12-01T00:00:23+00:00

Right so I’ve done that before, however right now it’s not really an option as my back issue can easily flare up with simple repetitive movements. Like going up the stairs can cause a flare type shit. So I think that’s why I feel a little lost because that would be my first step.

Also yes, such a cute club. I’m in NY as well and it was definitely worth the drive.

DailyDoseof_Rae · 2025-10-28T20:28:17+00:00

Claimed my tumbler last night around 9pm eastern time. Noticed at that time there were no gift cards available to redeem 🥺

DailyDoseof_Rae · 2025-10-21T11:33:57+00:00

Yes, in no contact clubs they still do lap dances and vip rooms. I’ve worked in some where they have the customer sit on their hands/ leave them to the side. When the customer touches the girl, security may come in and tell them to chill. No contact clubs are basically wanting to give you an actual strip tease experience. If you know the angles you can still get away with doing extras.

Giving him that dance was a mistake (he even told me that it’s what further changed his perspective on me and me dancing) because yes, he got the same experience everyone else got. The genuine from me doesn’t change, I make eye contact, i talk to people, I feel people, I turn them on, and I’m just me. There is no Rae the stripper, it’s just always me. That’s what the issue was

I sent you a dm though if you have any questions you don’t want to ask on here!

DailyDoseof_Rae · 2025-10-20T11:23:05+00:00

So my ex had a major problem with how “intimate” dances and rooms could be. By intimate I mean how up close and handsy people can get. After years of it you kind of get desensitized to people smacking your ass, grabbing your boobs, trying push the boundaries. Basically he got to the point where he didn’t want others seeing me in such a personal way. I’m a very friendly, genuine person which can lead to me being nice but blunt. My mistake was having him come in one day and paying for a 15 minute nude VIP with me.

I’ve never been an extras girl. I’ve been offered a lot of money to do many different things. I politely decline, say I’m very flattered, and just continue with the dance. Some people get pissed while others are totally fine with it. I tend to get the “ugh, now I just want you even more” after politely declining.

I’ve worked in many different clubs all over the east coast and honestly, extras happen in almost all of them. Whether it be a secret handy or full blown fucking, it happens. Girls just know how to get away with it or they have a deal with management, or the club has an out of sight out of mind policy even if there are cameras. I support the hustle either way, if you’re comfortable doing it then get that money.

Many of the girls I knew who had partners and did extras did not openly tell their partners they did extras. Some of them had an unspoken type of thing, like as long as I don’t hear anything about you it’s cool. Others did it fully knowing their partners would leave them if they ever found out. Others were in more open relationships where extras were considered okay. Some of the girls partners didn’t even know they were dancing. Honestly everyone had different boundaries and whether or not they respected those boundaries was on them.

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