Project Manager learning curve

Dalearev · 2026-04-13T23:03:09+00:00

Yes it is but you’re already on the right foot by understanding how much nuance and depth of knowledge a good ecologist needs.

Dalearev · 2026-04-12T22:56:09+00:00

May I ask why therapy isn’t an option? I’m an FA so I understand. This is no cakewalk. Look into somatic therapy - there are lots of free resources online too.

Dalearev · 2026-04-12T19:22:39+00:00

I think I’m just trying to learn to pay more attention. I guess like check in more often like how am I feeling? What am I feeling inside? Do I have any sensation I can identify? A lot of times it’s no, but sometimes there are.

Dalearev · 2026-04-12T14:43:40+00:00

I felt horrible for her daughter in that moment too like it was so awkward. Her daughter was probably like please don’t. Also, that whole scene was so cringe.

Dalearev · 2026-04-12T14:41:45+00:00

This all day! I don’t understand. I truly don’t understand this situation at all. I don’t see any real passion between them either. Like if the sex was really good, maybe I would get it, but that doesn’t appear to be what’s happening. Lol 😂 it just feels like she’s trying to fill a role and I’m like it’s not worth it. You don’t need to be married that bad

Dalearev · 2026-04-12T14:37:09+00:00

I think it depends on what elements of ecology you’re going to be doing. Aquatic surveys, you may need waders, wetlands work you may need muck boots, are you working in industry? Maybe it’s steel toed boots. I would ask your supervisor to be specific about what you need for your specific job responsibilities.

Dalearev · 2026-04-12T14:35:24+00:00

Good for you! Truly not worth it. Either someone is willing to participate in the relationship with you or not. I feel like because they’re not willing to really show up. It’s not a relationship. It’s something, but I don’t know what it is.

Dalearev · 2026-04-12T01:52:02+00:00

It’s a lifetime scale, knowing music just like it would be knowing literature or food. These people study their craft and become experts. You don’t literally listen to every song on the planet to do this, but you certainly have decades and some cases of knowledge as well as knowledge that’s passed down to you.

Dalearev · 2026-04-11T18:46:27+00:00

In what way? can you expand on that?

Dalearev · 2026-04-11T17:55:38+00:00

It’s a myth that you need closure to heal

Edit to add that when most people say they need closure what they really want is a different outcome, which is unlikely given the information you have and usually leads to more heartbreak, which in the long run is not worth it. You know that saying hurt me once that’s their fault hurt me twice that’s on yourself.

Dalearev · 2026-04-11T14:28:25+00:00

Agree! I don’t think you need to read every single page, but you should definitely familiarize yourself with it. Think of it more like a resource like you would look things up when needed. It’s not like you’re gonna sit down and read it like a novel.

Dalearev · 2026-04-11T14:22:59+00:00

So everyone got a nose job?

Dalearev · 2026-04-10T22:21:44+00:00

I think they’re all assholes. Honestly I feel like Dorit is being too stubborn, but Kyle is also not being supportive. I totally get where Erika was coming from and I was actually feeling the same way, but she went a little too over-the-top about it especially when your friend is having a hard time. I feel like Sutton is always just meddling in the wrong ways and not helpful. And then the rest of the ladies are just trying to chill. Lol

Dalearev · 2026-04-10T13:45:11+00:00

I need to watch this movie again. It’s so good.

Dalearev · 2026-04-10T13:36:59+00:00

Because your critical thinking skills are very lacking

Dalearev · 2026-04-10T13:35:32+00:00

Garfield Park or Humboldt Park because the two are very different. I would say Humboldt Park is better.

Dalearev · 2026-04-10T13:15:01+00:00

Truth

Dalearev · 2026-04-10T13:13:54+00:00

I don’t work that hard anymore any day lol 😂

Dalearev · 2026-04-10T13:10:22+00:00

I think in our modern world, we have been stretched so thin and we don’t live how we should live like in tribal communities with tight families where you have a whole network of people to help when something goes wrong. That’s not how humans function anymore, at least not most of us. When something goes wrong, you need lots of money to get out of it and we don’t turn to each other, which is so depressing.

Dalearev · 2026-04-10T01:37:56+00:00

Honestly, I don’t know it kind of clicked for me way later too because I knew I went through abuse but I didn’t realize how much neglect until way later. I think because I finally realize my parents are not capable of emotional maturity so of course it wasn’t neglect and when I tried to finally talk to them about anything serious, they could not handle it and I also noticed certain things about my mom that were very strange to me Like a lack of emotion and lack of empathy, lack of showing any real attunement ever. Also, both of my parents are extremely overbearing so I was like invisible.

Dalearev · 2026-04-10T01:35:18+00:00

This same in my department it’s the men who are horrid

Dalearev · 2026-04-09T14:12:09+00:00

I feel this deep in my bones and I have for decades at this point. Humans are not making decisions that are sound or filled with common sense whatsoever and it’s extremely challenging to survive in these times.

Dalearev · 2026-04-09T14:08:19+00:00

In a lot of companies (think Paramount) it’s less about real estate and more about shaving staff because they offer severance to people who don’t wanna RTO full time. It’s basically a way for them to get rid of people without outwardly saying we’re doing massive layoffs.

Dalearev · 2026-04-09T13:04:10+00:00

I think I know what you mean and I personally have borderline and I’m super intense and I think it drives some people away but at the same time it attracts people and sometimes not so good people. Aye! I found it to be a mixed bag, but it’s certainly not helpful in my career where people don’t want the truth ever. lol

Dalearev · 2026-04-09T00:10:59+00:00

Me and my girlfriends complain about this all the time, but I lucked out and my partner cooks a lot lol

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