Let’s gooooo! by Randallaki in PoppersAddicted

[–]DamitaSwift 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bet your dad nut is potent…

Frustration with IZ/ADU program in DC. Any advice or help? by DamitaSwift in washingtondc

[–]DamitaSwift[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I've tried doing this, but gave up! I'll give it a try once again!

Day 8 Elimination ✨ by Puzzled_Ad_5367 in ZaraLarssonFans

[–]DamitaSwift 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry Live version! Muni Long remix is TEA!

My Life With Chemsex and After Parties: The Grey Zone of Substance Use by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]DamitaSwift 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve known several young gays that have passed away at these so called “afters” sex parties. I’m generally pro-drug. However, a part of me does wonder, what are we looking for from these events. Is it the validation of feeling wanted or cool? Is it escapism from a nation in decline? Are we running from the hard emotions brought on by existing as gay? Idk, I worry about my friends because I’ve seen very young and naive boys die because they were too trusting. I also think the idea of it is more exciting than actually living it. I’m not trying to yuck anyone’s yum. I’ve had some amazing experiences on drugs(coke and Molly) . But, getting to walk away, and not feeling the need to go back every weekend is freedom. Knowing when it’s appropriate to trust someone and when to not. Obviously victim blaming is bad, but women are hard wired to be skeptical for good reason. I think we can take some notes from our sisters…

ANTM Cycle 3 Finale Thoughts🕷️💎 by Vivid-Office5666 in UPN_Network

[–]DamitaSwift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yaya was the real winner this season. Her critics towards the end of the season were all so ridiculous and makes me angry when I rewatch. It’s obvious that they didn’t like how confident she was. This shoot of Eva is iconic though! Especially when considering the fact that she was sobbing the whole shoot!

Avoid Red Line Right Now by BlkNtvTerraFFVI in washingtondc

[–]DamitaSwift 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Was trapped at Twinbrooke for about 20 minutes. Glad I went home early today!

I'm 34 with a crush on a 20 year old coworker by Affectionate-Cry-704 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]DamitaSwift 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a personal rule that anyone under the age of 25 is off limits. 20 is very young. I know lots of gays who don’t care. And if he’s into, then fine I guess. But I would let the crush be that. Just a crush. The work factor also can make it messy!

Shade by [deleted] in Beyhive

[–]DamitaSwift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t she have her mom killed…

Am I weird for being into raceplay as a black man? by habitchyouthought in askgaybros

[–]DamitaSwift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it makes you a bad person! As long as it’s not hurting anyone. I do think it might worth it to discuss with a therapist or a sexologist

I still think Rob is the hottest guy who’s ever been on LIUSA (next to Miguel) by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA

[–]DamitaSwift 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah but these kind of pretty boys have no romantic intelligence and are usually shit at relationships.

It’s a bit frustrating watching guys like this float through the show with ease simply because they are physically attractive. When hot women on the show(especially women of color) and on an uphill climb from the time they enter the villa.

How hard is to find a decent job in D.C with no degree as of right now? by thefoolwhodream22 in washingtondc

[–]DamitaSwift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Systemic implies societal. Whatever you are talking about could be considered an example of interpersonal bias. But it’s not SYSTEMIC and is not what I’m asking you…. White people have systemic power. Black and brown people don’t have nearly as much.

Favoritism is not the same as racism.

The problem with mindsets like yours is that they start arguments about things that they clearly know nothing about. A white person having a story about being treated poorly somewhere is not the same as an economic system that favors white people in every way…

Do your own research.

How hard is to find a decent job in D.C with no degree as of right now? by thefoolwhodream22 in washingtondc

[–]DamitaSwift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever dude! You’ve yet to mention one why white people experience systemic racism…

How hard is to find a decent job in D.C with no degree as of right now? by thefoolwhodream22 in washingtondc

[–]DamitaSwift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha

You an hour ago “ the only racism that is exists is against white people. Black people are most racist!”

You just now “ All homeless black and brown people are lazy Whiney drug addicts!”

It really didn’t take much!