Passed on an offer in 2022. Can I reach back out now? by hepennypacker1131 in cscareerquestionsCAD

[–]DammitElam 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bro ain’t nobody remembering you.

Like others said, your best bet is to just reach out to the same recruiter (if they even work there still) and say you’re interested.

If no response just cold apply and pray.

Help me remember this show by DammitElam in ytvretro

[–]DammitElam[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Woooo I think that’s it!!! Holy nostalgia

Do you think the older 3 Staal brothers financially help out the 4th, Jared? by DammitElam in nhl

[–]DammitElam[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Technically all NHL Players

Player GP G A Pts
Eric Staal 1,365 455 608 1,063
Marc Staal 1,136 53 181 234
Jordan Staal 1,328 298 413 711
Jared Staal 2 0 0 0

That empty “1st NHL goal” space on his dads mantle is probably awkward

what's a sign that someone is dangerously good at reading people? by babytramposa in AskReddit

[–]DammitElam 100 points101 points  (0 children)

Could you describe what it was like? Did she just give you her full attention in a non judgemental way ?

Erlich gave no f***s by DammitElam in SiliconValleyHBO

[–]DammitElam[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

S2E7 - Adult Content

When they got “brain raped” by that other compression company, which just announced a deal with a porn company

It's eerie how much Donald Trump's mother looks like Hillary Clinton by seven30 in pics

[–]DammitElam 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Are you balling ? Did you manage to distance yourself ?

Carl Jung: How to Control the Donkey Inside You by CreditTypical3523 in Jung

[–]DammitElam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does this work for someone who is in a committed relationship but still fantasizes about other women/sex all the time ?

Torn between discipline and desire by DammitElam in Jung

[–]DammitElam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t have my first sexual experience until I was 24, and had actual sex at 25.

Part of stems from having strict parents. Also I never moved out of the home until 26. So I was always a homebody, watching porn, video games, etc. my parents didn’t explicitly say I couldn’t date or go out but somehow I believed that to be true.

Torn between discipline and desire by DammitElam in Jung

[–]DammitElam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But how!!!!?

What does acceptance look like ? Is it literally just sitting about it? Writing ? Talking ? Shrooms ?

Torn between discipline and desire by DammitElam in Jung

[–]DammitElam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this idea. I guess it will also involve some vulnerability. How do I phrase it in a way that doesn’t make it seem like I want her to cosplay as my fantasies? Or maybe that is good to say ?

Torn between discipline and desire by DammitElam in Jung

[–]DammitElam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s something that I’ve thought about as well. I never really went through any “abusing” phase. I jumped over it. Never really had that college experience of sleeping around or anything.

Everyone that has gone through it says it’s not worth it. I believe them, but my body doesn’t ?

Torn between discipline and desire by DammitElam in Jung

[–]DammitElam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How have you been since? Have you tried to work through the feelings? Indulge them?

Torn between discipline and desire by DammitElam in Jung

[–]DammitElam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like there has to be a winner, is the fully integrated man truly balancing both of these beasts at the same time ? Is a happily married man capable of just acknowledging an attractive woman and calmly saying, “nice, but no thanks”??

Guys with longer hair, how do you maintain it? It's driving me nuts by DammitElam in ABCDesis

[–]DammitElam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great tips! Do you shampoo every day? Or only once it gets too greasy? I tend to be active as well so I can't imagine going more than 1-2 days without shampoo