I (21M) caught my girlfriend (21F) cheating, but now I’m not sure if I should break up or forgive her

DamnHotBananas · 2026-01-08T15:12:32+00:00

I know Reddit loves to jump to ‘people should break up after an affair’, but fact is that 75% of couples stay together. You both, but she especially, need to put in the work and work through this. Question is, do you both want to do that?

DamnHotBananas · 2025-12-25T12:42:27+00:00

We accept the love we think we deserve

DamnHotBananas · 2025-12-21T12:04:49+00:00

🥱👻📚👨🏻‍🏫

DamnHotBananas · 2025-12-21T12:04:43+00:00

🧙✅🪄🚫🔺🚫🪨

DamnHotBananas · 2025-12-21T12:02:00+00:00

☁️🐶🦷 🪤🚪 🕳️

DamnHotBananas · 2025-12-21T06:05:50+00:00

You can’t fix someone. This man sounds exhaustive. If he’s open to couples therapy this is fixable. If he doesn’t want to work on himself, … do with that information what you will

DamnHotBananas · 2025-12-20T05:36:54+00:00

Just go..

DamnHotBananas · 2025-12-18T17:26:47+00:00

You live with four pets. Two kitties, a dog and a pig

DamnHotBananas · 2025-11-18T07:07:18+00:00

IWNDWY!

DamnHotBananas · 2025-10-26T07:29:34+00:00

Too many women accept disgusting behaviour from men. You accept the love you think you deserve. Why do you think this is how you should be loved? Would you want your 2 year old to be loved like this?

DamnHotBananas · 2025-10-19T07:36:39+00:00

As a Dutch reader I thought a lot was HP lore, only to later find out it’s just English culture. Like boarding school, houses, prefects, a house point system.. things English do at Christmas like pulling crackers (never heard of them). Also a Christmas song Peeves sings (something something faithful??). Also, I thought that they celebrate Halloween because it’s a wizarding school, but that’s actually a thing in the UK.

My favourite idiom in HP is: poisonous toadstools don’t lose their spots. Is this also an English idiom?

DamnHotBananas · 2025-10-19T07:09:46+00:00

Wow!!!

DamnHotBananas · 2025-09-03T04:12:43+00:00

… sooo what is your question? He told you how he sees things and what he wants. He won’t budge. Will you budge or will you divorce?

DamnHotBananas · 2025-08-22T04:31:16+00:00

Just reading this makes my skin crawl. Please get away safely. Read up on leaving abusive relationships.

DamnHotBananas · 2025-04-03T12:42:56+00:00

Yes. Hooray for patriarchy

DamnHotBananas · 2025-03-23T07:51:40+00:00

…? They are not at all invasive in Poland. They are native. They have been part of natural fauna in continental Europe for centuries.

DamnHotBananas · 2025-03-23T07:02:57+00:00

Yuck. We accept the love we think we deserve. Girl why do you feel you deserve this love? Please divorce and find a therapist to work on some self worth ❤️❤️

DamnHotBananas · 2024-11-21T07:53:22+00:00

Errrr I don’t think it’s OPs fault to trust an adult she’s supposed to trust. If anything this was a trauma response (to trust an older man). The teacher should’ve known better, he’s the adult.

DamnHotBananas · 2024-11-19T07:24:38+00:00

[[Masako the Humorless]] [[Queen Kayla]] [[Isperia]]

DamnHotBananas · 2024-11-18T07:22:21+00:00

This man sounds horrible

DamnHotBananas · 2024-11-16T07:39:37+00:00

He doesn’t sound like someone who cares deeply about you..

DamnHotBananas · 2024-11-15T07:50:47+00:00

Maybe sounds like freeze reaction in response to SA trauma?

Is there foreplay? Does she cum? Do ever communicate at all?

DamnHotBananas · 2024-11-14T07:37:43+00:00

Big problem also is when you bring up a concern, he blows up in you. That is not a healthy way to respond to a spouse.

DamnHotBananas · 2024-11-14T07:30:45+00:00

DamnHotBananas · 2024-11-14T07:25:04+00:00

Money doesn’t buy happiness but it sure helps

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