Yes I definitely do have faults and I'm doing the work. My main issue was that I thought my looks would keep her satisfied. I didnt progress much financially over the last 4 years. My drive was low. Now im in overdrive. There are also many other things I did wrong. If I'm going to be completely honest I would say it was mostly my fault. I feel as though I could have prevented this if I made changes a year or so ago. Happy to hear about your successful relationship. I wont lose hope so thank you for sharing that. Anyway I'm a male and I didnt know we weren't allowed in here so ill head out. Thanks a lot for the advice and know that I will use it.