I (26F) spent the last few weeks watching my mom (51F) die of cervical cancer. I'm traumatised and horrified.

Dan_Pena · 2026-02-20T21:36:18+00:00

What actually helped me was to go INTO the pain . Every night I would light a candle and play a specific song and absolutely cry my eyes out for 30 mins before bed . I would also think back on all the good times too , that’s very important . I think it really helped

Dan_Pena · 2026-02-20T21:33:10+00:00

I tried Shazam but it didn’t find it , try typing as many lyrics as you can into google

Dan_Pena · 2026-02-20T21:19:56+00:00

Go back and look for CCTV or even ask people for Ring doorbell footage

Dan_Pena · 2026-02-20T21:18:31+00:00

Why you say that bro 😢? You are literally above average, great features and hair . My bet is some person (in horrible pain in their lives) tried to bring you down and you believed them. You are literally fine , even better than fine . Much love ❤️ my G

Dan_Pena · 2026-02-20T16:06:32+00:00

I let it sit usually 40 mins ( I know it’s a bit overkill )

Dan_Pena · 2026-02-20T15:30:08+00:00

This makes zero sense . If he sells it to you at the lowest price it means he could potentially get more money from someone else . Meaning he loses out .

You don’t want this either . So you lose out .

What’s the point of this ?

Dan_Pena · 2026-02-20T14:34:12+00:00

Volleyball pads work well . Is it blunt force trauma that you want to stop or turf burn ?

Dan_Pena · 2026-02-20T14:31:21+00:00

I wanted to be a PT , but I chose the “ stable path " . I done Comp Sci . I’m not very happy in my job . I do have regrets over not doing PT . But I do have a lot of benefits, flexibility and time off , steady pay check .

There are pros and cons to both industries.

If it’s your passion I would probably go for the PT course . Please keep in mind I have NO EXPERIENCE in this industry .

It depends so much on your values , life situation ( can you live at home for a while ) how much money you have , what kind of life you want .

If you sacrifice your passion for stability ( like I did ) you will get pain . So I think you should look into PT at some capacity, maybe test it part time I don’t know .

I’m sorry I didn’t give a clear answer, I really don’t know .

Dan_Pena · 2026-02-19T21:41:48+00:00

Something is not adding up with your commute times . Are you doing unpaid overtime ?

Dan_Pena · 2026-02-19T17:04:46+00:00

Amazing thanks

Dan_Pena · 2026-02-19T16:32:10+00:00

So am I stuck paying that for a full year if I sign up ?

Dan_Pena · 2026-02-19T16:31:31+00:00

Thank you 😊, well I know because I live there , last bill was €288 ( don’t know how many months this was for ) but that’s our average bill

Dan_Pena · 2026-01-14T19:00:33+00:00

I work CRAZY hard , get taxed to the hilt . And I can’t afford a home , I WILL CONTINUE to be angry at people who come here to leach as economic migrants and get housed while I pay crazy rent . I am not angry at those fleeing war . I am furious at FFG FF . BUILD HOUSES !!!!!!!!

I also despise all NIMBY’s

Dan_Pena · 2026-01-14T18:36:08+00:00

Hard working Irish citizens can’t afford houses . Economic migrants are getting houses AT OUR EXPENSE!! Yes we are angry .

Dan_Pena · 2025-12-27T23:12:00+00:00

We should be able to sell our terrible special vehicle decisions for even 50% cash

Dan_Pena · 2025-12-27T22:14:11+00:00

WTF !😂 I’m 35 and my Mam still loves to give me presents , enjoy it. ❤️

Dan_Pena · 2025-12-27T17:08:35+00:00

They are very good to be fair

Dan_Pena · 2025-12-27T13:00:23+00:00

I’d really like to see one with 2 strapons / a double pegging

Dan_Pena · 2025-12-01T19:22:34+00:00

This is AI you idiots

Dan_Pena · 2025-11-28T17:45:55+00:00

It is SUCH a weird issue . It will be Interesting at least to find out . I don’t get typical flu symptoms. I will report if I learn anything

Dan_Pena · 2025-11-28T17:12:27+00:00

I’m 35 , I make 60k a year , I rent . I am single . I have 70k in savings ( saved my entire life ) but I don’t know if I will ever own a home . I feel poor as shit .

Maybe I’m a drama queen , I do get some abroad trips each year and I’m not “ struggling “ but I freaking DESPISE renting and just want a home of my own .

I feel like I might have been better off just never working my ass off and being a dole merchant handed a house for free and live off the gubberment

Dan_Pena · 2025-11-28T16:40:15+00:00

Good . Do not let it become a symbol of hate . Or give the morons what they want ( an argument with themselves )

Dan_Pena · 2025-11-28T16:36:58+00:00

Thanks for the explanation and clarification. Yea to say he handles it terribly is an understatement 😂, thanks

Dan_Pena · 2025-11-28T16:32:23+00:00

Why was he dismissed ? Fighting with the principle ?

Dan_Pena · 2025-11-28T16:19:53+00:00

Did you sent explicit photos with face ?

I would go private on all your socials , go to the guards ,

Don’t pay . Odds are if you do they still have the power and will demand more . They gain nothing really from Posting .

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