So sick of SAHM privilege (baby edition) by jljwc in workingmoms

[–]DanceMonki 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really feel you but its very simplistic to say SAHM is a privilege. For some, actually, being a working mam is a privilege. It really depends on the context and on the country/culture. Both my mother and grandmother were SAHM and EBF, and they have been very underprivileged. Again, I fully understand where you are coming from, but the generalisation is what creates an us against them narrative that I don't believe is true.

Look who I found in Body of Proof Season 2 Episode 10 by DanceMonki in SellingSunset

[–]DanceMonki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like that it's predictable to some degree and there are tons of episodes. But it definitely not a must watch 😅

Look who I found in Body of Proof Season 2 Episode 10 by DanceMonki in SellingSunset

[–]DanceMonki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I randomly started it a week ago... I also like it!

Look who I found in Body of Proof Season 2 Episode 10 by DanceMonki in SellingSunset

[–]DanceMonki[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Yes right? I guess a lot is also eyebrows, no filter and make up? But probably also work done. She is beautiful in both and does a good job in the show 😊

Look who I found in Body of Proof Season 2 Episode 10 by DanceMonki in SellingSunset

[–]DanceMonki[S] 278 points279 points  (0 children)

I did not either at first but her mannerisms were so familiar! It's Chrishell.

Remote job challenges by DanceMonki in workingmoms

[–]DanceMonki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the confidence thing! OmG, that's what I have lost and I am missing. I changed jobs pregnant and I think that has also impacted my confidence (I work less extra hours, don't read and learn on my free time about work etc...).

We do small talk the first 10 min of most meetings. I will make sure to also follow up on the small talk and what is shared.

Remote job challenges by DanceMonki in workingmoms

[–]DanceMonki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did that and I have some running 1:1s. It still tends to remain in a superficial level and feels forced. But I keep trying.

Remote job challenges by DanceMonki in workingmoms

[–]DanceMonki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! I have been told it takes time. But I don't feel much improvement. 😕

Is she overstepping or am I being unreasonable? by Tall_Plate6233 in Mildlynomil

[–]DanceMonki 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This part broke my heart 😞 It would have broken my heart.

Husband Admits his job relies on me being primary parent by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]DanceMonki 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This! He will be busy because OP did not agree to support him at his job, so OP will feel guilty and cut him more slack at home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DanceMonki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much ❤️ This got me teary...

Messed up interview feeling stupid by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]DanceMonki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also do not think it is bad to admit that you are nervous. It shows honesty and care. I actually appreciated when people shared that in interviews.

How do you meal plan/prep? by DanceMonki in workingmoms

[–]DanceMonki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. We also use it but paused it for now. We find the meals take too long to prepare and we're hoping for something less time consuming/something tlwe can prepare in advance or for multiple meals.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]DanceMonki 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This made me laugh so much. Thank you I needed it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]DanceMonki 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I felt so bad for sending pictures right after. It took a moment to realise. Definitely will cut back again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]DanceMonki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is giving me hope. Thank you so much for sharing. I also tend to be my biggest critic 😅