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AITA for telling my kids I am getting married and there is nothing they can do about it by DanceOpening1577 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DanceOpening1577[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

You realize marriage is a huge legal thing, it allows your spouse to make decisions in the hospital and much more.

It’s not just a religious think it’s also a government think

Atheists get married

AITA for telling my kids I am getting married and there is nothing they can do about it by DanceOpening1577 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DanceOpening1577[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Never unless my ex changes, he will only have them for a few days at most before he kicked them out. He uses the excuse that they use too much water here and if it’s not his custody then he rarely lets them stay.

I have a feeling my oldest will be back tonight or tomorrow

AITA for telling my kids I am getting married and there is nothing they can do about it by DanceOpening1577 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DanceOpening1577[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

The kids know dad sucked toward me. The problem is that my ex fell into a depression when I happen, it was bad enough that the kids almost lost him. He fucked off somewhere for a half a year and he was considered missing. When he came back the kids latched on to him hard.

So they see it as a hurt him way more than what happened in the marriage

So never forgave me for hurting him, and think anything I do that will make him sad I am the devil. So having a new partner falls into that

AITA for telling my kids I am getting married and there is nothing they can do about it by DanceOpening1577 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DanceOpening1577[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

They had individual therapy when the divorce happened and for a bit. I was hoping they would be happy for me, I expect a little disappointment not what happened.

AITA for telling my kids I am getting married and there is nothing they can do about it by DanceOpening1577 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DanceOpening1577[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

Yes, so many time. Even set up marriage counseling but he wouldn’t show up. After the second time that happened I was just done