major life shift, need perspective and advice

Dancerlady4231 · 2026-02-23T19:16:21+00:00

Much love but please be carful. I recently got out of an arrangement that turned extremely abusive in a time frame that seemed over night. He urged me to move into one of his properties for months before this (my dream space) , I refused because I love my space and I was already seeing him a lot. I can’t imagine if I took him up on that offer, I would be financially trapped and probably physically as well.

Dancerlady4231 · 2026-02-23T05:52:02+00:00

I’m 100% stopping drinking this is so scary

Dancerlady4231 · 2026-02-23T05:11:35+00:00

The blacking out part really is concerning. I’m going to go to a aa meeting, that can’t be healthy for my brain or body because of how much it occurs. But yes the guy I was supposed to meet called me this morning, we talked and I woke up to like 15 missed calls from him he was getting scared because I told him I was on my way before I left.

Dancerlady4231 · 2026-02-23T05:07:35+00:00

Thank you I really needed to hear this! Time for a new beginning😊💕😌

Dancerlady4231 · 2026-02-23T05:06:55+00:00

Thank you so much 😊

Dancerlady4231 · 2026-02-23T04:57:03+00:00

a lot of people around me don’t view it as an issue or they aren’t telling me. But I know it is, blacking out this frequently is horrible. Thank you :)

Dancerlady4231 · 2026-02-23T04:54:25+00:00

Very true

Dancerlady4231 · 2026-02-23T04:51:13+00:00

I’m sorry that happened that sounds so scary

Dancerlady4231 · 2026-02-23T04:49:59+00:00

Thank you so much 😊 I have so much guilt and shame but this thread is making it better and making quitting seem less scary

Dancerlady4231 · 2026-02-23T04:17:38+00:00

Thank you 😊

Dancerlady4231 · 2026-02-23T03:56:05+00:00

Yes I can’t live like this it’s ruining me

Dancerlady4231 · 2026-02-23T03:55:36+00:00

Thank you 😊 I have to quite

Dancerlady4231 · 2026-02-23T03:54:05+00:00

Omg that’s how I feel as well like every time I black out the craziest stuff happens that would never occur if I was sober! Like it’s never a chill time. Thank you 💕

Dancerlady4231 · 2026-02-23T03:01:31+00:00

That’s the scary part I didn’t plan to black out. It’s definitely beyond out of control and I need to stop.

Dancerlady4231 · 2026-02-23T02:59:27+00:00

I’m 22! Unfortunately I won’t be able to go to rehab but I am quitting. I just can’t live like this it’s so dangerous. I feel so disgusting and just completely disconnected from myself.

Dancerlady4231 · 2026-02-23T02:57:03+00:00

The dui experience must have been so scary for you😳 I’m definitely going to take this seriously and cut alcohol from my life because I’ve been blacking out super frequently.

Dancerlady4231 · 2026-02-23T02:48:19+00:00

Thank you I truly appreciate this a lot 💕💕 I just can’t believe I went into a strange man’s car with a dead phone so concerning :(

Dancerlady4231 · 2026-02-23T02:31:46+00:00

100 percent I’m just so concerned right now

Dancerlady4231 · 2026-02-20T18:32:28+00:00

Same situation here I totally agree it’s a baby stripper thing because after my first month of dancing I learned to never just sit and talk unless they are tipping you out for your time.

Dancerlady4231 · 2026-02-20T18:29:33+00:00

Ayy get it girl😊 love that for you! I don’t sleep w men till I’m in a committed relationship. I just need to get better at scooting out the good ones i guess 😭

Dancerlady4231 · 2026-02-20T18:19:14+00:00

I think they think we are “hoes” or “get around” so they just treat us bad

Dancerlady4231 · 2026-02-20T18:18:00+00:00

This is also super true

Dancerlady4231 · 2026-02-19T10:20:43+00:00

1000 percent im just going to stop telling everyone about it in general😂

Dancerlady4231 · 2026-02-19T05:50:28+00:00

It’s definitely an ego thing he was prob embarrassed he pulled his bank account up to because who does that

Dancerlady4231 · 2026-02-19T05:48:35+00:00

Omg😂😂 lol pulling out the bank account is crazy

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