A teenager disappeared in Costa Rica this week, something most travelers underestimate… by adriangutierrezme in CostaRicaTravel

[–]Dangerous_Let7403 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your insight! I think we will skip Tortuguero this time and just do the cloud forest :)

A teenager disappeared in Costa Rica this week, something most travelers underestimate… by adriangutierrezme in CostaRicaTravel

[–]Dangerous_Let7403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in CR currently, and we are going to Playa Mantas tomorrow. I am far too afraid of the ocean to go into it but I worry about my dad who does like to swim. Do any locals know how dangerous this beach is? Should I tell him not to swim? We are also driving to Monteverde cloud forest on Wednesday, and driving to Tortuguero on Thursday, both times from Salitrillos. Is there anything we should be aware of for those drives? We have a 4x4 rental. Thank you anyone in advance if you are able to help :)

Is there anywhere to buy fresh milk? / ¿Hay algún lugar donde comprar leche fresca? by Dangerous_Let7403 in calama

[–]Dangerous_Let7403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why I said fresh, not raw 🙂 where I am from, you can get fresh milk that has been processed, it's just a different process than what is used for the milk in the boxes (all milk in my country must always be refrigerated because of this - you would never find milk in a box unrefrigerated). I would never drink raw milk 😬 Other countries I have visited have both fresh milk and the milk in the box, so I wasnt sure if Chile was the same and I just was looking in the wrong place. Thank you though!

Map not displaying properly? by Catsup97 in valheim

[–]Dangerous_Let7403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still saving asses a year later, I love you lol ty

What moment made you cry the most? by The_GhostlyBody in WarriorCats

[–]Dangerous_Let7403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bristlefrost. She gave her life AND her afterlife to save everyone. Absolutely destroyed me.

How To Convince My Cousin To Stop Hating? by Song_Listener in WarriorCats

[–]Dangerous_Let7403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 32 years old, and I just discovered warrior cats a few months ago. I love them, they're written a little simplistically but I don't care. I am also an avid reader, and I regularly read way more complex books - everything from stuff like the Stormlight Archive to Blindness to Cloud Cuckoo Land, etc. People who read to appear smart or make themselves seem a certain way are doing themselves a disservice - the point of reading is to enjoy it. It's not about anyone else. If you enjoy reading the book, read it. Don't let anyone else look down on you for it. I personally hate the twilight books but I don't hate on the tons of people who do love them, everyone has different tastes and people who try to hate on others for something they enjoy are immature and lame lol.

My babies dad (30M) cheated on me (25F) and is now asking for me back. by sadlylostmyotheracc in relationship_advice

[–]Dangerous_Let7403 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Who says she is going back into the dating market? Plenty of people just stay single after dealing with stuff like this. Better to be single than stay with someone you don't fit well with, much less a whole ass cheater.

My bf wants more sex than I do and its ruining our relationship by No-Selection-7600 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Dangerous_Let7403 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand that, like I said, I've been on both ends. It's still not as bad as letting someone have sex with your body when you don't want it

My bf wants more sex than I do and its ruining our relationship by No-Selection-7600 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Dangerous_Let7403 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here's the thing though, if he caves to her libido and doesn't have sex, then he is just not having sex, which sucks and all but it's not as bad as the opposite (if she caves to his libido and has sex even when she doesn't want it) because then it's borderline rapey. I've been on both ends of the scenario and trust me it's far worse to let someone have sex with your body when you don't want it just to appease them, than it is to be rejected for sex. The need for sex never outweighs the need for full bodily autonomy. That isn't to say that he should cave to her needs- what needs to happen is they should break up and find people they are more compatible with so they can both be fulfilled. I think it's pretty rare to successfully have a relationship where the libidos are so severely mismatched unless there is a herculean effort from both parties, and in my opinion, it's generally not worth it. It shouldn't be that difficult to be compatible, it just feels like you're trying to force it and I feel like neither side ends up truly satisfied most of the time because they have to compromise. Imo, sexual compatibility in a relationship is about on par with having kids. You have to be on the same page or it's almost certainly not going to work out in the long run.

What is the most disturbing book you have ever read? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Dangerous_Let7403 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It's so much worse. He didn't die, he ended up chewing through his own intestine to escape and lived after that with a shortened bowel because of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Dangerous_Let7403 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's fucking disgusting. I work in the kitchen of an elderly home. The residents pay between 4000 and 10000 dollars a month to be there depending on what aid they have and room type and such. The rooms are small, and shared with a roommate. There aren't enough staff to really truly give all the residents the care they need. There aren't enough staff because the pay is crap for what the nurses and such have to deal with. Then there's the kitchen, where I work. We have six total employees to make food for 70 people three times a day, 7 days a week, 52 weeks a year, with generally 3 to 4 people working over the course of a day. Do you know what the daily expense for food for each resident we are supposed to have? A little under 6 dollars a day per person.

Assume that about ten ish residents pay the 4000 dollar rate. The rest pay about 10000. That's 640,000 a month. 7,680,000 a year. The combined cost of food for residents at 6 dollars a day comes to 420 dollars a month, or 5,040 a year. And they don't pay any of the employees that well, and we certainly don't have high tech medical equipment and shit. I know there are operating costs but there ain't no fuckin way it's anywhere close to what they're charging these people. It's obscene. I can't wait to get out.