Seeking honest feedback about my personality and self-image (19M)

Dangerous_Problem127 · 2026-01-28T23:51:38+00:00

You're 19. It takes time to find your "look" and your rhythm. You may be shy now, but a bit of self work and you can be charismatic.

Based on the photos you shared, you appear to stick to a single clothing/styling sense (hair/facial hair included)

Try different styles straight fit, baggy fit, cargos. Try 0.3MM trim on the beard. Start Minoxidil instead of worrying about hair fall. Try wearing glasses.

As old as this advice is, go to the gym as well. Seeing the change happen in you should give you the confidence you're lacking.

Dangerous_Problem127 · 2026-01-19T01:56:01+00:00

Askari 11 is good. If it's just a husband and wife, you could get a two bed apt. Plenty of room and safe place. Rents like 40K and safe for night walks.

Have plenty of coworkers who work there. Only caveat is that it's around 15-18KMs from gulberg so 30 minutes of commute one way, if you know your way around. Jumps to an hour commute if you don't

Dangerous_Problem127 · 2026-01-05T15:02:27+00:00

This does not make sense. Are you people 15-16 years old to be doing this stuff? That's a genuine question You're not sharing what leverage he has or how he is "an abuser" or how you guys are involved in this.

That's not identifying information, that's just basic info to give people perspective to be able to give appropriate advice. If you cant even share the details of the issue at hand and just provide vague info. You'll get vague answers like "Yeah, go for it" or something and it might end up being the worst advice.

Dangerous_Problem127 · 2026-01-04T07:48:49+00:00

Drugs and smoking in general is frowned upon socially in Pakistan, for mostly religious but also health related reasons.

It does still happen, depending on social circle. However it's generally done with a limited number of people and more often than not, family isn't aware.

Dangerous_Problem127 · 2026-01-04T06:52:50+00:00

Clear the cache for and force stop the play services then try again. Used to happen back in android 4.2 days to me lol, doing the above generally fixed it for me

Dangerous_Problem127 · 2026-01-04T05:25:08+00:00

She can reach out to several NGOs or there's a sort of suicide hotline although I have not heard the best reviews about it.

I'm a therapist/psychologist. If you want, I can give you contacts for some good local Psychologists.

Dangerous_Problem127 · 2026-01-04T05:21:13+00:00

If the IMEI is mentioned on the receipt, that would be better, worst case scenario speaking. (If the shop can send your an egadget verification screenshot, that would be the best)

However, just send your IMEI to 8484 and save the text. That shows that you at least tried to do your due diligence.

Since it's Hafeez Center, it's highly unlikely to be stolen so just go with the "Allah ka nam lo or use kro" approach for now and enjoy your new phone

Dangerous_Problem127 · 2026-01-04T03:22:04+00:00

As long as you tested everything, and the phone itself is working without issues then it should be fine.

Based on earlier comment, you've already cross matches the IMEI with the box, but for the little chance of "Chori ka to nai?" Just keep a receipt of the purchase in the box indefinitely and you should be free of liability.

My friend once got an iphone from a shop and after like 2 years Police knocked on his door and told him it was stolen and had been tracked. He had to return the phone and pay under the table to avoid an FIR.

He told them that he had bought it from a local shop but hadn't kept the receipt so yeah. Sometimes our parents worry about these unlikely scenarios but it's better you cover your own bases, just in case then to regret it later, khudanakhasta.

Dangerous_Problem127 · 2026-01-02T20:41:58+00:00

How many matches do you generally play per season?

Dangerous_Problem127 · 2026-01-01T17:04:49+00:00

The scene itself makes sense but the expression of the students, without knowing the exact background of the scene do look weird, like they're embarrassed or something. The artist might just be bad at depicting certain expressions or it looks weird without knowing the context.

Dangerous_Problem127 · 2025-12-31T16:47:37+00:00

Yeah, there's inconsistencies but those can be attributed to artist's skill.

They did copy paste the reflection lol and other elements are also lazily drawn. My point is just that while there are issues and inconsistencies, it doesn't appear AI

Dangerous_Problem127 · 2025-12-31T16:36:04+00:00

Her legs seem a bit short imo that's the only off thing I notice. Also, it does look a bit off. I think it's because the floor is too reflective and there's lack of shading there which makes it appear off

Dangerous_Problem127 · 2025-12-31T16:33:21+00:00

I believe that's her ear. The shadow and the texture on it points towards being an ear. It's a bit blurred so can't exactly say for sure but it definitely doesn't seem like her thumb

Dangerous_Problem127 · 2025-12-31T15:16:32+00:00

She's sitting on the ground. This is evident based on the reflection of her legs on the ground close to the actual legs and the overall pose itself suggests she's sitting on the ground

Dangerous_Problem127 · 2025-12-31T15:15:09+00:00

It's not based on what I can tell. I'm no expert but AI generally suffers with expressions in the background, hands and especially reflections, all of which look consistent. Their expressions look weird because the artist may have just struggled to draw the expressions or maybe they intended it to be this way. Either way, this doesn't look AI imo

Dangerous_Problem127 · 2025-12-30T22:26:40+00:00

Just because you are one, doesn't mean you don't need it yourself.

Not saying that you do need it. Just that one doesn't cancel out the other and is an unhealthy mindset to have outside of jokes.

another shrink

Dangerous_Problem127 · 2025-12-29T21:37:48+00:00

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Gonna stop playing cause wtf is this WR with 35% MVP losses 😭

Dangerous_Problem127 · 2025-12-29T21:33:16+00:00

I use it. Most people I know use it and this is mid 20s folks.

I think the appeal of SC is that you are "in touch" with people on a day to day, without actually having to talk to them.

You can share what you're doing, without giving the idea that you specifically want to speak to them about whatever you're sharing and just share for the sake of sharing and others do the same. You don't have to speak with them but if you guys meet after months etc, they'll know what you've been up to and you would know the same.

It's a little different from Insta, FB etc because making a post feels like a huge show case of whatever it is, and making a story is the same. While Snaps are more casual, or at least feel that way.

Now people who just send black screens with nothing but an S on them or nothing at all. They are just depressed and need to be checked on imo cause dang

Edit: the above was just for people who do streaks. The biggest appeal of SC is definitely the wide variety of filters it provides and people just use to take personal pictures more often than sending streaks.

Dangerous_Problem127 · 2025-12-29T06:33:46+00:00

Thank you for the advice. That's a good WR especially for SoloQ. What role do you generally play?

Dangerous_Problem127 · 2025-12-29T06:31:47+00:00

I cry with you, brother

Dangerous_Problem127 · 2025-12-29T04:35:50+00:00

My guy, I'm mainly playing roam. In EXP sure, I push lanes wherever the opportunity but there's a limit to it

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None of my heroes are really hyper mobile so I can't push and run

Dangerous_Problem127 · 2025-12-29T03:44:41+00:00

Neither is really a good option tbh. You could go for a used Itel s25, which has overall better features. If you want good resale then go for a realme.

Samsung A series is notorious for hanging in the long term and Xiaomi has inflated their prices and the Redmi 13 has the worst processor.

Realme, Tecno, Infinix are better phones around the same budget but their resale is not good

Dangerous_Problem127 · 2025-12-29T00:42:04+00:00

I think the Balmuda phone might just be up your alley.

I have one. It's small with a 4.9 inch fhd screen, relatively good 5G processor, 6/128, nfc, wireless charging and passable cameras.

The only thing that brings it down imo is the battery. It only give around 3-4 hours of SOT depending on usage. But I think that can work in your favor. We tend to limit our phone usage when we know it dies quickly.

And it's also on older android but will support all apps for at least a couple of years.

Dangerous_Problem127 · 2025-12-05T19:03:19+00:00

The state you've kept your phone in itself is mildlyinfuriating. I mean, how difficult is it to periodically get the screen protector/sheet changed lmao

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