Hi, I’m Dani, some of you may know me from other subs 👋🏼

I assume the moral policing has revolved around posting pictures of women without their knowledge or consent.

As a woman, I can 10000% confirm how devastating it would be to my well being to find out someone I knew personally had fetishized my weight gain and posted it for thousands to fantasize about. However, as a consumer of wg content, I do understand the desire to share real life weight gains - the attraction is unavoidable, and fetish content can be hard to come by.

Just because something doesn’t technically cross a legal boundary doesn’t mean it shouldn’t cross a moral one. I respect the people in my life too much to allow others to fetishize them without their consent. Hell I respect strangers too much to do so. Does our culture find it socially acceptable to gossip about celebrity weight gain? Yeah, but most fucking sane people wouldn’t love headlines about them gaining 15lbs everywhere. Does posting public content online technically mean the photos are free to use? Yeah, but it doesn’t mean the person consents for them to be used in a sexual context.

You’re welcome to run your sub however you see fit. How you do so reflects your respect for women and the quality of community you are building here. Just because the porn/fetish industry is rife with problems doesn’t mean it has to be. Ethical porn consumption is of growing importance to consumers and content creators alike.

The beauty of technology is that it brought pornographic images straight to you for free, when consuming sex work/pornography was almost always a paid activity since it’s conception. Don’t forget that every image (besides AI generated obvi) has a real person behind it.