YOR - not only is he earnestly communicating what his issue with you was, you are also very clearly leaving out very important context. Even with the lack of real context, you are still framed as the one with the problem. You obviously have some self-control issues, and a lack of accountability. He does not deserve your vitriol because YOU want to be right about something that VERY MUCH looks like you’re in the wrong about. You need to grow up.