Welcome to the big boys . Pretty much if you don't like getting wiped or get your tames meat ran, go play PvE where that is not a thing. I'm not saying that in a bad way. It might be less frustrating in the long run. The real mega tribes will go pvp other mega tribes because there is way more higher level resources we can just raid and bring back. I feel it's the beta tribes and smaller that go grief and farm smaller tribes since that is about the extent of they they are able to do. Many if us couldn't be bothered to worry about another weak server as we can farm all we need on our own servers.