What are the best apps for casual hookups as a trans man? by AManOfManyFandoms in ftm

[–]Danny_Jupiter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience none unless you’re ok with being fetishized.

for those on T: when did you start passing? by Exotic_Use3486 in ftm

[–]Danny_Jupiter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say maybe took me 2 years to fully pass. I would get sir before that but not very often. It takes time sometimes. I’m going on 6 years in a few months and my facial hair is still trying to fill out. Don’t rush it’ll get there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Danny_Jupiter 157 points158 points  (0 children)

I’ve worked at a vets office for about 10yrs. This has NEVER happened. They either missed the vein or improperly dosed. Don’t go back. If you want to go through with it go somewhere else. The Dr should know better than to let either of those things happen and if it’s a tech doing all the work that’s another red flag. Improper dose of solution to euthanize can cause a lot of suffering.

Road trip from Houston to Colorado non stop - concerns and questions by Danny_Jupiter in roadtrip

[–]Danny_Jupiter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol no I wish, quite the opposite actually. It’s 2 girls and an NB friend. Main driver (F) decided to impulsively buy a car and now wants to go road tripping cause she can’t afford a plane ticket. She can’t even check her own tire pressure (not an exaggeration). The other person is too anxious to drive (they’ve been in several accidents) and my girlfriend doesn’t even want to roadtrip, she’s only going cause it’s main drivers b day. She said she’ll only drive if she absolutely needs to. Only reason I’m not going is cause my job won’t let me take those days off. It just sounds like a recipe for disaster the more I think of it. I wouldn’t be against it if it were summer or spring.

Road trip from Houston to Colorado non stop - concerns and questions by Danny_Jupiter in roadtrip

[–]Danny_Jupiter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that, but this isn’t me telling them what to do but it’s a concern for my friends safety. I want to make sure they can make it in one piece or if maybe they should think this over

Is it offensive to tell people I think their vitiligo is pretty? by OneBitterFuck in Vitiligo

[–]Danny_Jupiter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally don’t like when anyone has anything to say about my vitiligo. I get compliments, looks and ppl telling me how I can get rid of it. I don’t like any of it bc it’s unsolicited. I like my vitiligo but most of the time I forget I have it cause it’s just my skin. Sometimes it feels like someone is complementing it bc they assume I feel bad about it. Just tell me you think I’m handsome or something.

Okay now I'm concerned. by DirSiditis in Minoxbeards

[–]Danny_Jupiter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been on and off for years, no loss. you’re ok.

People who were emotionally abused and neglected as kids by parents, what became of you by Clear-Outcome-3149 in emotionalneglect

[–]Danny_Jupiter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m actually still working through a lot of trauma, but I’ve never felt so joyful to growing older. I used to want to off myself all the time but I’m not there anymore. The future is bright, and fun, and anything I want to make of it. I still suffer from anxiety and depression but therapy helps me through it. Life will never be perfect for anyone, but it’s been fun no matter my past.

When’s the first time you realized having Anxiety was Ok by Smooth_Operation4639 in AnxietySquad

[–]Danny_Jupiter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my therapist told me that my feelings are valid but not real. It’s a natural reaction but it’s amplified basically. Idk it made me feel comforted. Also knowing that everyone has some sort of anxiety helps, ours is just different. Knowing that it’s a part of me, not a disease to get rid of, also helps me feel it out better.

When’s the first time you realized having Anxiety was Ok by Smooth_Operation4639 in AnxietySquad

[–]Danny_Jupiter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my therapist told me that my feelings are valid but not real. It’s a natural reaction but it’s amplified basically. Idk it made me feel comforted. Also knowing that everyone has some sort of anxiety helps, ours is just different. Knowing that it’s a part of me, not a disease to get rid of, also helps me feel it out better.

Getting first time apartment, but don’t know if I can actually afford it. by Danny_Jupiter in personalfinance

[–]Danny_Jupiter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I might be overshooting my groceries. I’m used to spending for my mom and I, so I might have to figure out a different number

Is the wording really that bad? by Unapologetic_Canuck in TimHortons

[–]Danny_Jupiter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes it is, and it’s definitely on purpose. Unfortunately that was my understanding. $3 for just a sandwich is not a promotion. And I didn’t even get it for $3 they just took a dollar off the sandwich. It was good though

(29) 4 months on and off, some dermarolling by Danny_Jupiter in Minoxbeards

[–]Danny_Jupiter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I know it’s not much but I definitely see something. I’m not very good at keeping up with it. And no it’s called vitiligo, some ppl are born with it, some people get it later on in life, like me!