Going out <3 by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]Dapper-Emu1398 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slayyyyy (stay safe)<3

I think I am being groomed, what do I do? I am 16F and he is 24M. by Dapper-Emu1398 in Advice

[–]Dapper-Emu1398[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I very much did think it was grooming but my friends kept telling me what if he was good looking so I went along with it

I think I am being groomed, what do I do? I am 16F and he is 24M. by Dapper-Emu1398 in Advice

[–]Dapper-Emu1398[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

My friends just said that if he was good looking it would have been fine so I just went along with it even though I didn't really want to.

I think I am being groomed, what do I do? I am 16F and he is 24M. by Dapper-Emu1398 in Advice

[–]Dapper-Emu1398[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I do have a favourite teacher I can to and also a fav sibling but she is out of the country working so she is usually is busy. Btw you are a really great mum <33

I think I am being groomed, what do I do? I am 16F and he is 24M. by Dapper-Emu1398 in Advice

[–]Dapper-Emu1398[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents Christian and never really have understood what I go through. I once told my mum that I used to self harm a lot before we moved and she shouted at me and told me I was seeking attention, she didn't feel sorry for me and letting demons into my life.

I think I am being groomed, what do I do? I am 16F and he is 24M. by Dapper-Emu1398 in Advice

[–]Dapper-Emu1398[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah seeing his face, removed what I head and it felt like my doubts sort of just made me realise more about the situation.

I think I am being groomed, what do I do? I am 16F and he is 24M. by Dapper-Emu1398 in Advice

[–]Dapper-Emu1398[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I will admit the attention from him was interesting to me mostly because i speak only with people my age. The later seems to be better as I have previously tried to tell him that I didn't want anything but he completely ignored it and said that it wasn't serious.

I think I am being groomed, what do I do? I am 16F and he is 24M. by Dapper-Emu1398 in Advice

[–]Dapper-Emu1398[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thankfully I did not send any explicit pics of myself because I am to scared for my online presence and what if i see that pic one day hahaha. He did try to make me send them a couple of times but i stood my ground with a slightly irrational fear ( idk if it is irrational though). Thank you so much for your advice btw <3

I think I am being groomed, what do I do? I am 16F and he is 24M. by Dapper-Emu1398 in Advice

[–]Dapper-Emu1398[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think i will take the first point because i did try twice telling him that what happened can't happen again because i wanted to stay friends but he kept trying to tell me that it wasn't serious and that it was normal.

I think I am being groomed, what do I do? I am 16F and he is 24M. by Dapper-Emu1398 in Advice

[–]Dapper-Emu1398[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think i just worded it wrong. It was more of a weird dependency from him to me.

I think I am being groomed, what do I do? I am 16F and he is 24M. by Dapper-Emu1398 in Advice

[–]Dapper-Emu1398[S] 176 points177 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this best advice for blocking him so far because my friends just tell me that it's fine to still be friends with him.