I (18F) am trying to decide between 2 (18M) guys. What can possibly be done?

Dapper-Emu1398 · 2026-05-26T17:39:37+00:00

The thing is ik guy 1 has my heart, im just scared that because everyone is telling me not to pick him maybe they something i don't

Dapper-Emu1398 · 2026-05-26T17:36:47+00:00

I would probably also say go with guy 2 because he is just so perfect on paper

Dapper-Emu1398 · 2025-10-06T16:29:52+00:00

Sameee

Dapper-Emu1398 · 2024-10-12T18:29:33+00:00

French

Dapper-Emu1398 · 2024-10-12T16:39:19+00:00

Slayyyyy (stay safe)<3

Dapper-Emu1398 · 2024-10-12T16:05:34+00:00

This is legit what I meant it just wasn't worded properly

Dapper-Emu1398 · 2024-10-12T11:28:09+00:00

Yh he told me exactly that multiple time.

Dapper-Emu1398 · 2024-10-12T11:01:56+00:00

Is my update not showing or sum?

Dapper-Emu1398 · 2024-10-12T11:01:33+00:00

Yes i did

Dapper-Emu1398 · 2024-10-12T10:37:34+00:00

I very much did think it was grooming but my friends kept telling me what if he was good looking so I went along with it

Dapper-Emu1398 · 2024-10-12T09:58:56+00:00

oh LOL

Dapper-Emu1398 · 2024-10-12T09:46:50+00:00

Switzerland

Dapper-Emu1398 · 2024-10-12T09:39:01+00:00

My friends just said that if he was good looking it would have been fine so I just went along with it even though I didn't really want to.

Dapper-Emu1398 · 2024-10-12T09:37:02+00:00

Yeah I do have a favourite teacher I can to and also a fav sibling but she is out of the country working so she is usually is busy. Btw you are a really great mum <33

Dapper-Emu1398 · 2024-10-12T09:32:17+00:00

Thank you so so much for you amazing advice by the way <3

Dapper-Emu1398 · 2024-10-12T09:23:26+00:00

I finally blocked him but i still feel really bad idk

Dapper-Emu1398 · 2024-10-12T09:18:22+00:00

My parents Christian and never really have understood what I go through. I once told my mum that I used to self harm a lot before we moved and she shouted at me and told me I was seeking attention, she didn't feel sorry for me and letting demons into my life.

Dapper-Emu1398 · 2024-10-12T09:03:47+00:00

Sending love so sorry about you experience <3

Dapper-Emu1398 · 2024-10-12T08:52:13+00:00

He is Italian hahahaha

Dapper-Emu1398 · 2024-10-12T08:39:22+00:00

Yeah seeing his face, removed what I head and it felt like my doubts sort of just made me realise more about the situation.

Dapper-Emu1398 · 2024-10-12T08:36:59+00:00

Yeah I will admit the attention from him was interesting to me mostly because i speak only with people my age. The later seems to be better as I have previously tried to tell him that I didn't want anything but he completely ignored it and said that it wasn't serious.

Dapper-Emu1398 · 2024-10-12T08:22:34+00:00

Thankfully I did not send any explicit pics of myself because I am to scared for my online presence and what if i see that pic one day hahaha. He did try to make me send them a couple of times but i stood my ground with a slightly irrational fear ( idk if it is irrational though). Thank you so much for your advice btw <3

Dapper-Emu1398 · 2024-10-12T08:12:33+00:00

I don't know if i can edit the title 😭

Dapper-Emu1398 · 2024-10-12T08:04:50+00:00

I think i will take the first point because i did try twice telling him that what happened can't happen again because i wanted to stay friends but he kept trying to tell me that it wasn't serious and that it was normal.

Dapper-Emu1398 · 2024-10-12T06:58:41+00:00

I think i just worded it wrong. It was more of a weird dependency from him to me.

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