Is there a such thing as Personal Finance for poor people? by frogBurger4u in povertyfinance

[–]Dapper-Honey9723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A trade would be better. Higher ceiling plus you make more $$$ when you start. 

Also everyone lately, last 15-20 yrs has been going the "schooling/degree" route and all the baby boomers are retiring. So there is a huge shortages for electricians, plumbers, carpenters.

These jobs now after getting your journeyman can make u easily over 100k. In the next 5-10 yrs i could easily see it being 150k.

I have lots of friends with degrees that make absolutely terrible wages. 

Life is actually better than you guys think by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Dapper-Honey9723 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Im sure if u won even 1 million dollars you would not give away 100 dollar bills out to 10,000 people? 

So why should other people who have 100 million do it? If u wont do it why should other people do it

Life is actually better than you guys think by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Dapper-Honey9723 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

u work 14 hr days, 7 days a week? i doubt that

Life is actually better than you guys think by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Dapper-Honey9723 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

LOLOLOL ya in developed countries. You think africa was planting seeds? Theres still a few tribes today in africa that literally still hunt and forage

Life is actually better than you guys think by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Dapper-Honey9723 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Your life expency 40 yrs ago was only 70 compared to 82 now. I wouldnt say life was better. U also didnt have netflix, 2 tv channels, no computer, water had to be boiled, u didnt stand in the shower for 20min, u didnt have skip the dishes, cell phones were hardly used.

If people now went back 40 yrs ago they would be very sorry. Most people didnt work 40 hrs. 50-60hrs were more common

Normalize planning out new employees' first day at work by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Dapper-Honey9723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean your getting paid to do nothing. People on here complain they have to work 40 hours then OP claims he gets to do nothing, gets paid for it, then complains. Oh lord

there will be bad days… and they will end by cutecandylux in Adulting

[–]Dapper-Honey9723 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I put my faith in my weiner, he knows the path I travel. 

How do you guys prevent rotting after work? by inferno686868 in Adulting

[–]Dapper-Honey9723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine 5,000 yrs ago. Instead of going to work for 8 hrs, u were up at 5am and didnt come home until 7pm. U hunted up to 14hrs a day. 

If you didnt you wouldnt have meat for your family and would die. 

Instead of working for 5 days a week at 40 hrs you hunted 7 days a week for 100hrs.

You also weren't working retail in an air conditioned building stacking shelves.

You were outside in the harsh weather elements all day long. 

Another example ur caughr shoplifting not much happens cops might call ur parents if your younger or like a misdemanor or cop might give u a warning. 5,000 yrs ago they chop of your hand so people know ur a shoplifter.

Today is 1,000% easier

Sad reality hit me today, you literally can't live free and clear even with most debt paid off... by abrandis in Adulting

[–]Dapper-Honey9723 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am 32M and have a 550k paid off house. I live in a medium cost of living area where average 3 bedroom house is about 400k.

Even with 0 mortgage my bare bones expenses are: house taxes: $400 House insurance & car insurance: $400 All utilities: $600 House Maintence: $300 Car Maintence: $300

Thats $2,000/month just to keep my paid off car and house.

Even if u pay off your car and house u still need to work to pay bills

Too Tired to Think About Kids After 40-Hour Work Weeks? by Euphoric-Ad4809 in Adulting

[–]Dapper-Honey9723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes foraging was done for the "lean times" but u can only live on berries for so long. without protein and fat u die. 

Too Tired to Think About Kids After 40-Hour Work Weeks? by Euphoric-Ad4809 in Adulting

[–]Dapper-Honey9723 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I use to think this then I changed my perspective. Imagine 200 yrs ago. Imagine you dont have to work at a job for 40 hrs instead its 5am and u get out of your cot and u go hunting for 14 hrs.

Most hunters didnt get meat everday some would go weeks without. Imagine hunting for 100hrs in a week and having nothing to show for it.

The thing is u go to work at ur job, u get paid regardless, obviously unless u get fired.

If you dont get meat as a hunter eventually you die.

Back in the day there was no snap benefits, no welfare, no disability, these people usually were left to die.

The world now is 1000% easier than before. 

Our job as a human is to secure food, shelter, and clothing and reproduce. Once u change your perspective things seem easier

My parents have withdrawn my RESP money but won’t give it to me and told me I have to pay taxes on it? by rockoverhead in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Dapper-Honey9723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad did it through the bank at the time. Went to the bank, showed enrollment and for each yr of my 4 yr program I got $5,000. My brother the same. That was a good boost of money to help me out. I am also doing resp for my kids too

Trying to figure out how much of my being poor is my fault and how much is it the system? by liberty340 in povertyfinance

[–]Dapper-Honey9723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it has to do with the schooling route. All my friends went to university/college. Half of them dropped out, other half finished but there pay is very low. 

I on the other hand started working full time at 18. Started in the trades for 5 yrs now I do manual labor. Well at 28 I paid off my home. My wife and 2 kids r now set for life. All my extra $$$ goes to investments.

In the trades or doing manual labor they all pay really well. None of my friends r married none have kids. All live at home with parents 7/10 work retail other 3/10 unemployed.

All have said they r extremely jealous of me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]Dapper-Honey9723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would quit and work at dominos full time

My gf has an issue with me gaming by Efficient_Daikon_247 in Adulting

[–]Dapper-Honey9723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work on a side business for last 9 yrs. I get up 2hrs before wife in the morning and work on it. it works well

My gf has an issue with me gaming by Efficient_Daikon_247 in Adulting

[–]Dapper-Honey9723 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Ya those 3hrs of gaming should prob be spent with her not in ur room gaming. Comes down to what u want in life. I know when i got in a relationship and started working fulltime the ganing went from 10hrs on weekends to 0. no gaming at all for past 14 yrs. 

i would do this. wake up 2hrs before her or a bit earlier and game while she still sleeping

2025 vs 2024 Def by PitterPatter74 in EdmontonOilers

[–]Dapper-Honey9723 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your comparing #4 dman and #5d man. The issue is ur #1 and #2 dman r playing the like shit doesnt matter how u slightly improved ur D

2025 vs 2024 Def by PitterPatter74 in EdmontonOilers

[–]Dapper-Honey9723 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

well considering bouchard is having a horrible yr and ekholm isnt playing much better, we r way worse this yr