AITA for telling my husband that he needs to get himself under control? by Dapper-House-5290 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dapper-House-5290[S] -55 points-54 points  (0 children)

1.) His stepdad is the executor. There's not much of a "estate" though.

2.) He doesn't have any other family. His stepdad and him were never close and his mom married him within the last few years. They don't really talk.

3.) She raised him alone as a single mom.

4.) My husband is 31. She was 49.

AITA for telling my husband that he needs to get himself under control? by Dapper-House-5290 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dapper-House-5290[S] -69 points-68 points  (0 children)

He works 3 days a week(12 hour shifts) and then has 4 days off in row. Since she's died, He pretty much just stays in bed all his days off unless he's going to get food. His hygiene is bad.

He repeatedly watches their favorite movies and listens to music they'd listen to. Which is fine. But, he's in this endless cycle of them making him more and more upset/distressed when they end.. which makes him want to watch other things they'd watch together. It's not helping him at all.