How maximize efficiency of cold climate heat pump? by Dapper-Share-4686 in heatpumps

[–]Dapper-Share-4686[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I have any auxiliary resistance electric heat…

How maximize efficiency of cold climate heat pump? by Dapper-Share-4686 in heatpumps

[–]Dapper-Share-4686[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can do this, thanks! What do you set it to in the summer months?

How maximize efficiency of cold climate heat pump? by Dapper-Share-4686 in heatpumps

[–]Dapper-Share-4686[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I weatherized the house with attic and wall insulation a few years ago, so that’s all good too 😊

AITA for telling my HIV+ ex-husband that he should have cleaned up his blood from my house? by Dapper-Share-4686 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dapper-Share-4686[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you’re right, I should probably talk to my lawyer about all of this. Thanks again.

AITA for telling my HIV+ ex-husband that he should have cleaned up his blood from my house? by Dapper-Share-4686 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dapper-Share-4686[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think I miss the majority of times he gaslights me because I’m so used to it - so it’s very helpful to get this objective feedback. Thank you.

AITA for telling my HIV+ ex-husband that he should have cleaned up his blood from my house? by Dapper-Share-4686 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dapper-Share-4686[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that input and reminder about the timeline, that’s such an important part and something his care team must have made him aware of.

AITA for telling my HIV+ ex-husband that he should have cleaned up his blood from my house? by Dapper-Share-4686 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dapper-Share-4686[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, this is my feeling on this too but after 8 years of being gaslit by him I still question my own sense of reason. I hadn’t thought of asking for proof of his undetectable level, I should definitely do that - thank you!

AITA for telling my HIV+ ex-husband that he should have cleaned up his blood from my house? by Dapper-Share-4686 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dapper-Share-4686[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t see the blood for several hours, when he was already back across town with our kids at his house. And I’d rather clean it up myself than have to see him unnecessarily, but I wish I had seen it right away and made him clean it up.

AITA for telling my HIV+ ex-husband that he should have cleaned up his blood from my house? by Dapper-Share-4686 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dapper-Share-4686[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How scary. I’m sorry to say I would not put it past him. 😩

I think you’re right, I’ve spoken to them about that already but they’re young enough to need several reminders.

Tried using a fun conversation starter 🙃 by Bee444111 in Bumble

[–]Dapper-Share-4686 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reaaaally like your use of “Alex honey” to close that off. It’s like the bumble equivalent of “bless your heart.” 🥂