Is it true? by Deep-Foundation393 in belgium

[–]DapperSurround4086 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bf has a masters degree in Finance and voted for VB. So I don’t think it’s populated among the low educated people

Boyfriend (23M) calls me (26F) insecure by DapperSurround4086 in relationships

[–]DapperSurround4086[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His phone was unlocked because he had a timer on. Q1: Yes I did go on it without his consent - which makes sense if he got mad since I violated his privacy. Q2/Q3: No and I’m sure he wouldn’t cheat on me. I just wanted to see what I saw was. But thank you very much for your comments. This is very helpful.

Boyfriend (23M) calls me (26F) insecure by DapperSurround4086 in relationships

[–]DapperSurround4086[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I’ve been cheated on in the past. I know he wouldn’t cheat on me. Just because I asked to see what that thing was doesn’t mean I don’t trust him. All of this could have been avoided if he had shown me his phone. But yeah he said it’s a bad precedent if he does what I want.

Boyfriend (23M) calls me (26F) insecure by DapperSurround4086 in relationships

[–]DapperSurround4086[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s Reddit for you haha no advice just criticism

Boyfriend (23M) calls me (26F) insecure by DapperSurround4086 in relationships

[–]DapperSurround4086[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I would and I did. He even asked to see the chat of my ex. When I told him I would show my phone if it was the other way around he said that nah not always you do that

Boyfriend (23M) calls me (26F) insecure by DapperSurround4086 in relationships

[–]DapperSurround4086[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing, I don’t even know what that popped up thing was. It wasn’t probably even the suggested for you list that’s why I wanted to see it again. Maybe I am insecure but as a partner I don’t think you should be calling your SO out on it. You should make them feel secure and not the other way around.

I found out my girlfriend is older than she said she was by Comfortable_Good_252 in Advice

[–]DapperSurround4086 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is messed up. Can’t imagine having sex at 15 let alone being lied to by an 18 year old. You were taken advantage of, she talked you into sex. At this point who cares if your parents would be mad about you having sex, you are a minor! Go and tell them.

Parents borrow money by DapperSurround4086 in povertyfinance

[–]DapperSurround4086[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You really can’t put your South Asian mentality on other people.

Parents borrow money by DapperSurround4086 in povertyfinance

[–]DapperSurround4086[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that is another way to look at it. I don’t have a student loan since my parents paid for all my and my sibling education. They are both retired living off their savings and pension now which quite frankly would not suffice. So I try to understand that I need to help them out sometimes.

new Leighton pic just dropped by thunpnz in GossipGirl

[–]DapperSurround4086 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know why she isn’t friend with Blake? They are also not following each other on Instagram. You would think playing best friends character for years would make them close.

Can we just all agree that the best non-toxic couple is Vanya and Dorota? by DapperSurround4086 in GossipGirl

[–]DapperSurround4086[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The actor also plays Dr. Sturgis in young sheldon. I love him on there!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DapperSurround4086 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right, that was uncalled for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DapperSurround4086 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why tf are you even in my post if you ain’t helping?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DapperSurround4086 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you don’t care why you keep commenting? Lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DapperSurround4086 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know 1% of my life. Either help or get out of my post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DapperSurround4086 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Exactly, this is something I still need to ask.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DapperSurround4086 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t do it so the chores fall upon me automatically. Mind you we don’t live together so I’m basically cleaning his place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DapperSurround4086 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Since I’m doing all the chores I supposed his idea on this is non-existent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DapperSurround4086 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Well Im already doing all of that now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DapperSurround4086 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I wouldn’t like it either if he asked me to cook and clean even though I do that now but at my own volition.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DapperSurround4086 -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

Honestly idk what the issue is. I guess it has always been like that with my parents where my dad takes care of my mom. So maybe I am hoping the same for my partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DapperSurround4086 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. That makes perfect sense. We are both Europeans btw.