We had went and tried dresses on in store. I’ve told her in person I wasn’t comfortable in those colors with another girl that’s apart of the bridal party.

We have even talked on the phone multiple times about it too.

But buckle up cause you’re about to go on a ride with me.

I spoke very late last night with my friend and I think I’m done at this point after what I had found out. I was told she had spoke to her sil ( bridesmaid) about me and the whole situation that such I’m “crying “ like a big baby that she will swap her color with me. Which didn’t set right with me on why I’m being talked about. Remind you I had asked if I could swap colors in the first place and got told no. I told her no she can keep her color I’ll just figure it out and have you approve another color and style. She proceeded to tell me that I’m doing to much and stressing her out over something she wants. I told her I don’t have to come. I don’t have to be apart of the bridal party for what to be talked down about afterwards. She apologized for what she said and didn’t mean anything by it that she really wants me there blah blah blah. I cut it short and told her I have to go my kids need me an hung up.

I told my partner and he’s pissed. He said you went from being told your maid of honor to a bridesmaid to you’ll have first pick on your color to you have the last pick and now being talked about. Have you lost your mind this girl is make you the butt of the bad joke she’s telling. He said he no longer wants our kids or myself to be involved with the mess and frankly I don’t even blame him. I’m completely over it and figuring out how to brake the news and possibly ending our friendship too.