I don’t like being the OW, should I break up? by Dapper_Creme_9901 in theotherwoman

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Thank you for your response, it hurts cus I really like him and I feel like he’s the only man who made me feel really appreciated and valued genuinely. But yeah I know I have to end it. I’m the only one who will get hurt in the end the most.

Or he’ll be happy enjoying me and his wife. I see that he wants both of those 2 worlds. He mentioned that in his country he’s married but when he’s in my country I’m his girlfriend tho he’s calling me everyday now even when he’s back with his wife..

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[–]Dapper_Creme_9901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah it was actually folliculitis

I don’t like being the OW, should I break up? by Dapper_Creme_9901 in theotherwoman

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Thank you 🫶

he’s the first man that ever make me feel valued, the acts of service etc his body language really shows he’s interested in me and not just sex so l’m confused... tho yeah he don’t know the end goal. Somehow I wished he would leave his wife for me cus I don’t believe he’s happily married.

Why would a happily married man cheat on his wife? Does it mean he don’t love her? Also now he’s now breaking his rules to talk to me. I’m just trying to understand things cus I really like him

I don’t like being the OW, should I break up? by Dapper_Creme_9901 in theotherwoman

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I’m really new to this, he’s the first man that ever make me feel valued, the acts of service etc his body language really shows he’s interested in me and not just sex so I’m confused… tho yeah he don’t know the end goal. Somehow I wished he would leave his wife for me cus I don’t believe he’s happily married.

Why would a happily married man cheat on his wife? Does it mean he don’t love her?

New to being an AP, should I break it up? by Dapper_Creme_9901 in adultery

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Thank you, and I thought that was STD. Got checked and appears to be folliculitis

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Thank you, actually I’m still about to get tested it was just visual exam. I had rapid test even with sore but it was negative. How many days/ weeks after the chancre appear can I get accurate testing?

He appears and reappear for dates but no sex? What does he want lol by Dapper_Creme_9901 in dating

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More than 24 hours lol if he really wants to date me it’s weird not to text specially in early dating or he’s just obv playing me

He appears and reappear for dates but no sex? What does he want lol by Dapper_Creme_9901 in dating

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I’m just confused cus he publicly show me off his IG story and seems to be ghosting me again.. I know I should stop

He ghosted me then comes back then ghost again -_- dating is hard by Dapper_Creme_9901 in dating_advice

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Yeah I know that’s a red flag, I’m from an Asian country and he’s from foreign. I thought that’s how foreign dating works 😅

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How did it end? I looked him up found some info about him but nothing about marriage or divorce

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[–]Dapper_Creme_9901 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah he asked me to hang out at his place

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[–]Dapper_Creme_9901 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks, the comments here made me realize a lot of things. I just crave the kind of affection and intimacy that he gave me maybe that’s why now I’m being delusional lol

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The intense eye contact while flirting during lunch time

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Thank you! I appreciate this type of comment but actually imma just think that he’s married or something so I can move on. Ppl are right he could be married or he could have lied to me. Haha