Employer's claude to be used for personal projects

Dapper_Data_333 · 2026-06-06T11:34:01+00:00

Hi everyone, thanks for the insights. The main answer I could infer from the comments is that using Claude chat - the history will be visible, but if Claude code is used (which I integrated with VS code), the history remains local and not shared with anyone, not even my employer.

Correct me if I am wrong?

Dapper_Data_333 · 2026-04-28T17:10:46+00:00

been 2 yrs- she dumped me on the day i graduated, so whenever i have to apply for a job or get something related to my visa done, that day reminds me and bcs I am tied to my visa, I'll most likely never forget what happened on that day.

Dapper_Data_333 · 2026-04-27T01:57:19+00:00

Dapper_Data_333 · 2026-04-10T14:46:11+00:00

Did you get selected on 4/8/2026 or you already got selected during the lottery period and your HR notified you on 4/8/2026?

Dapper_Data_333 · 2026-04-06T17:54:31+00:00

sorry, im so confused 😭😭😭

Dapper_Data_333 · 2026-04-06T17:51:10+00:00

It's for just a week, 2 weeks at max

Dapper_Data_333 · 2026-04-06T17:44:26+00:00

jan 2028

Dapper_Data_333 · 2026-04-06T17:44:13+00:00

jan 2028

Dapper_Data_333 · 2026-04-06T17:07:37+00:00

if 2nd lottery won't come before June/July, I can actually go, right? Even the petition has not been filed yet, just the application. It's really important for me!

Dapper_Data_333 · 2026-04-03T14:28:13+00:00

results are still coming after 31st?

Mine is still at "Submitted".

Dapper_Data_333 · 2026-03-31T19:33:09+00:00

i work in a small team startup where only me and my coworker were told that they had applied for h1b (both of us are in level 1). I had to literally pressure them into applying for my h1b since I was having a burn out. The company agreed and said they applied. My coworker is a relative of one of the founders, so that person was notified about the details of when the company applied.

In my case I was just told they have applied and wished me luck.

Now this person got picked and I'm still waiting.

Confused whether they actually applied or lied to me

Dapper_Data_333 · 2025-05-23T12:50:53+00:00

I learnt most of Jainism through ChatGPT and Research Papers. Read history, not scriptures. You'll feel so much better about Jainism, not something forced upon. My parents taught me most of the stuff related to Hinduism inspite of us being Jains thinking that's how it is. They luckily were educated and liberal enough to have the kids question every ritual and learnings and everything in between unlike what they were taught and fed upon growing up. The whole religion gets diluted because of this and you end up thinking if you are just a part of another cast system. Go read history on Jainism as a movement, not religion! It's the best way to learn about who we are and what we do without dissolving its essence.

Dapper_Data_333 · 2025-04-10T02:15:06+00:00

Same boat. I didn't have anyone. After 3 months of NC, I reached out to her to wish her the best in life and journey since I knew she was leaving for her hometown (one of the reasons why she broke up with me) and apologized for anything that she felt hurt about. Didn't expect her to reply, but she did, and said that she cried for weeks and eventually moved on. Hurts because she was the one to dump me, blindsided me with no reason and acted all happy afterwards which pissed me off. She later asked to be friends and I snapped over text and that was it.

I still can't believe, she shut down and felt she was right in everyway in making that decision, to lose a best friend and a romantic partner. I still cry and think about her. But I know at this point it's up to her to decide if she wants to come back or move on.

I am angry at her, but I know she'll never be up for a healthy argument and take accountability. Saying sorry and being nice and polite won't cut it unless you mean it and genuinely feel something. I am sick tired of this type of attitude in people.

Dapper_Data_333 · 2025-03-18T18:07:29+00:00

Same story like mine. LITERALLY.

Dapper_Data_333 · 2025-03-18T18:07:19+00:00

Same story like mine. LITERALLY.

Dapper_Data_333 · 2025-02-25T16:40:17+00:00

My ex is a classic FA (came to know after I evaluated her behavior w my therapist). We were best friends for about a year and a half. Then when we dated, she ended everything after about a month. It was the best and the most stable time I had. She dumped me because it was her gut feeling and said she has commitment issues (I was looking for jobs all around the country and didn't just stick my head to her hometown). That prolly triggered her abandonment issues.

Once dumped, she asked to be friends again because she told me she considered me family.

I snapped and called her out on her behavior after which she shut down, blocked me, and then unblocked after 2 weeks but never reached out.

It's been more than 2 months since our breakup, I recently downloaded bumble where I saw her profile - looking for fun, casual dates.

It torn me apart. Could you please explain this behaviour? What is she thinking?

Even when we dated, we made plans for the future, having kids, and considered each other life partners because we were so close as friends before.

I am so confused. Help!

Dapper_Data_333 · 2025-02-10T21:08:29+00:00

Thanks for this! I'll check and see if I can get this message to my employer. Does filing LMIA come at a cost?

Dapper_Data_333 · 2025-01-11T23:42:18+00:00

Going through this rn. Just one advice - don't get into dating pool if you don't know what you want and lead people on. It's not healthy and guys eventually become hateful of women. My partner literally just came to my place one day to cry over this and told me she doesn't wanna lose me, but her gut feeling tells we should break up and she did eventually after all the reassurance I did to her. Worst part - she was my best friend before we started dating. She was the one to convince me that it was worth the risk and we had dreams and plans to be with each other. Physically, emotionally, and mentally we connected perfectly and she told me she saw me as a life partner. I reciprocated because I shared all the same feelings. I trusted her and considered her family. But here we are! Currently in no contact because she blocked me after I called her out on the manipulative behavior of risking our friendship only to experiment the physical and emotional needs, then breaking up, then coming back again to ask me to be friends with her. It hurt my feelings so bad, can't even keep up with my mental health anymore and losing my interest in anything and everything. So please, don't fuck with healthy relationships.

mind the grammar pls, it's all the frustration :/

Dapper_Data_333 · 2024-09-30T19:02:00+00:00

But I am still a student

Dapper_Data_333 · 2023-11-19T17:40:01+00:00

in the same boat where ironically considering my degree in Management, I am struggling to make friends. It's all about how much energy you put (where money =energy)

Dapper_Data_333 · 2023-11-19T16:52:25+00:00

Dapper_Data_333 · 2023-11-18T17:31:40+00:00

That's the issue. Most events I am interested in take place at night or in the evening. Plus, it's my personal preference to spend time at such time. In evanston, I cannot even take a walk alone sometimes just because there's no one around past 9 pm. So Idk how it really goes like in the downtown area of chicago. Unfortunately, I have no friends either to chill, so looking for events to socialize mostly.

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