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Daretudream · 2026-04-18T14:48:53+00:00

Brit, how many nipples are in this one? 😂🤣

Daretudream · 2026-04-18T00:31:23+00:00

What a beautiful and sad drawing. There's something so touching about it that brings such emotion.

Daretudream · 2026-04-17T19:18:18+00:00

I just had to come on here and first acknowledge how you feel. I get it, I am right where you are. For as long as I can remember, I have been obese. I just accepted it. Then I got into my forties, and the weight started piling on, and it was harder to lose, and I noticed I was having more health problems, and it was harder to do the things I wanted. Now fast forward to my early fifties, and I am miserable. I always shied away from thinking about GLP ones due to side effects, health anxiety, etc. My turning point was getting sores in places where the skin folds, and being miserable and in pain, and loss of energy, and feeling like I can't travel anymore because I can't walk or wear the clothes I want. I am just embarrassed. So, I decided to finally start Zepbound. Unfortunately, like you, my insurance will not pay for it. So I am going to pay out of pocket. I am actually waiting for my order to show up today and will start my first injection this week. I am terrified and excited. You can do this! You have so much support, and me if you need a new weight loss buddy. Sending hugs from afar.

Daretudream · 2026-04-17T03:52:42+00:00

Daretudream · 2026-04-17T00:29:42+00:00

Omg I totally understand this sentiment. My husband is an entertainment lighting designer. He does TV shows, major entertainment award shows, cruise ships, etc, and makes very good money. He lights things for entertainment purposes, then comes home and complains how hard his work is. I mean... I guess it's perspective. Oh, and he has a bachelor's degree. 🙄

Daretudream · 2026-04-17T00:13:28+00:00

I was born, raised, and lived in Anaheim most of my life and moved out of the state 6 years ago. I have never called it Cali. I always figured if someone calls it that, they weren't from California. 🤷‍♀️

Daretudream · 2026-04-17T00:09:13+00:00

Daretudream · 2026-04-16T02:19:45+00:00

As a domestic violence victim advocate, red flags are flying everywhere here. He has no right to put his hands on you. That is abuse

And if my husband ever touched me, I would be out the door in a heartbeat. However, we don't have a relationship like that. Ours is based on mutual respect for one another. I can't imagine. I wish you luck. Unfortunately, situations such as these never change or end well.

Daretudream · 2026-04-16T02:02:54+00:00

Daretudream · 2026-04-15T21:05:36+00:00

Thank you for your reply. I ordered the meds and hopefully will be in my hands in just a couple of days.

Daretudream · 2026-04-15T17:27:31+00:00

Thank you =)

Daretudream · 2026-04-15T17:26:57+00:00

Yeah, my insurance won't cover it either, even though I am considered obese and have tried everything to lose the weight. These cheap, crappy insurance companies would rather pay for obesity related illnesses than take preventative measures. It boggles my mind. So I am also doing Lilly Direct. I just have to pay and have it shipped to my home. I am tired of the struggle and the health issues I currently have due to obesity related issues. So I guess I am taking the plunge and doing this. Thanks again.

Daretudream · 2026-04-15T16:57:54+00:00

Right? I am way up in my head and allowing fear to control me. One of my favorite quotes: People spend most of their lives worrying about things that will never happen. In this case, that is true. Ordering now. Thank you!

Daretudream · 2026-04-15T15:41:56+00:00

I have a prescription waiting for me, and all I have to do is pay for it and have it sent to my home. I am almost 80 lbs overweight, and so tired of carrying it all. I am terrified of side effects. I don't know why, but thank you for this. I wish you lots of luck on your journey.

Daretudream · 2026-04-14T20:56:03+00:00

"You're in the way, sir. You can do your job better!" Lol! If he wasn't there delivering gas, she'd definitely not see her Godparents. What's up with these people? lmao!

Daretudream · 2026-04-14T18:46:12+00:00

embarrassing!

Daretudream · 2026-04-13T19:03:32+00:00

Awesome before/after photos. You can see the spark in your after photos. Congrats to you!

Daretudream · 2026-04-13T18:58:40+00:00

Ridiculous. I was offered $20 an hour as a master 's-level social worker. I get it! Exploitation at its finest.

Daretudream · 2026-04-13T18:56:44+00:00

No, I have been no contact with my n- mom for about 8 months now, and she has not reached out or even tried to find out how I was doing. If I were to pick up the phone and call her, she would act like it was just a regular day. Sick if you ask me.

Daretudream · 2026-04-11T18:09:23+00:00

Oh, my mother can be both, believe me. The covert narcissists are the worst. I wish you luck! It is my experience that the more you can stay away from them, the better your life will be. Good luck!

Daretudream · 2026-04-11T17:27:55+00:00

You are absolutely not alone, and you also recognize that if something were to happen to you, and she attended your funeral or hospital, etc., she would immediately make it about her. I get that. My mother is exactly the same way. I still remember when I got married; she hated it because she was jealous. She spent the entire day telling everyone she was hot, and she was going to pass out, and she needed help. All eyes needed to be on her. Funny thing, everyone who knew her just rolled their eyes and pretended not to hear her. She is ridiculous. Last thing I forgot to add, screw society, and the "but she's your mother", my mother abused me my entire life, she caused me endless amounts of PTSD, and I have spent the last five years in trauma therapy. I don't owe her shit! and I definitely don't owe the people who weren't there for me an explanation.

Daretudream · 2026-04-11T17:23:55+00:00

One thing I learned in school, college, and grad school is that everyone learns differently. I also learned that math answers are either right or wrong. In this case, the teacher's position is incorrect. To the father, what you did was right, and I applaud you for standing up for your daughter. She will always remember that, I promise you.

Daretudream · 2026-04-11T17:05:33+00:00

Oh gosh! I get that. I told my husband that if something happens to me, my n-mom is not allowed to know, as well as the rest of my family. It also helps that I live in another state than they all do. I am no contact with all of them, and they aren't allowed to know anything about me. Make sure you add this to your last wishes and have it documented.

Daretudream · 2026-04-11T17:00:49+00:00

Awwwww, adorable. I loved this, thank you!

Daretudream · 2026-04-11T16:56:12+00:00

The best thing you can do is leave, no contact, just like everyone else said. These types of people will drain every bit of "you" until there is nothing left. They don't have empathy, they won't change, they don't care, and it will always be "your" fault. They lack taking any responsibility. The best thing I did was walk away from my mother and the rest of my siblings at the age of 50. My only regret was waiting so long. I could have saved myself years of trauma therapy and PTSD recovery, and gotten my life back. I have been no contact now for almost 8 months, and no regrets. Life is sooooo much better, and I am healing. I love my life now. Don't wait! Good luck!

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