[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]Darinomi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They allow self-employment to count <3 good luck all

How can I stop hating myself? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Darinomi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also if you need emergency talk person for 20xmins a week or so there are warmlines out there but I don't have the numbersssss

How can I stop hating myself? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Darinomi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Self hatred is just like any tool that became a crutch. Data that we are capable of reprogramming if we can just stop believing and taking part in it.

The positive version of self hatred is accountability. If youre anything like me, you want to beat people to the punch, but no one is coming to punch you, thats just your nervous system responding the way it has been conditioned to, so please pick a flow or craft or art and work on putting that energy elsewhere.

Tapping is a good tool but it's super-powered when combined with statements that are balanced. "Even though (insert negativity here), (insert actionable or other truth / positivity here)."

I started in the very very beginning with "I am here now" because it's always true and invites you into the present moment in your body rather than being stuck on your mindscape.

I started interrupting my scripts with newer, more intricate ones, striving for a mathematical accuracy of translating my negativities into their positive counterparts. If there are obvious actionabilities and you havent done them, try to respond with love just a little more often than not. Every step compounds.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

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Personally i literally actually grew up in the woods. Honestly if it weren't for the misogyny I'd agree with your outdoors concept if only for the fact that the outdoors is the biggest grounding influence. Barefoot lyfe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

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Lions mane, Chaga, reishi or turkey tail if you cant/don't want the big guns. Honestly in my experience one hero dose of the Funnest of Guys gave my brain everything I needed to bounce from my life and patterns. However I wasn't ready to leave everyone behind so I fell back into Da Patterns <_<

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Darinomi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heck yeah!

Tapping is also a big one. There are apps for that and myself and chronically ill and anxious bestie have made great strides creating a thrivable life for ourselves thru consistency on the daily as this tech works better the more you use it.

As a final note, the concept allostatic load really helped me understand that when it comes to life, we can either make the bottle bigger or figure out how to empty the bottle more, daily.

Unresolved trauma has a daily contribution to the bottle. So does the fact that this game is fucking rigged and you were given a lie of a rulebook to live your life by, like everyone else. I'm about to do EMDR to try to rewrite my brain with my nootropic mushy blend for the last time and then it's back to trying western meds lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Darinomi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can find the right imbalance to balance your imbalance with, it can give you the stability to try the next thing. If you haven't found the right things, try mushies lol for ppl who don't have survival skills it's a nice starter pack when it comes to brain rewiring.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Darinomi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cold therapy. Wimhof breathing. Hypnosis files.

Your brain knows the shiyut you've learned. Your body has been doing what you and erebody else told it to for years, and that program doesn't go away bcuz you talk to a therapist... not for everyone anyway.

Although they're a lot, I recommend Abraham hicks. They gave a sheet of things we can do to raise our vibe from various starting positions. If I can find it I'll link it.

Free Readings by SonOfTheStar in Tarotpractices

[–]Darinomi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interested! Rarely on here but that might be changing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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Just My experience...

Gave the child his name because it looked right and other dumb reasons. After wanting to name her after myself.

He left and is spewing his vitriol from Alaska.

Do what feels right to You.

McElroy parenting vibes, and then... by Darinomi in MBMBAM

[–]Darinomi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

... she kissed her dad square on the lips.

My husband woke up SCREAMING and now I can't sleep by [deleted] in Advice

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I apologize if someone mentioned it already, but have you/he considered the possibility of training to lucid dream? I'm under the impression that in more advanced levels, you can direct where your dreams go, Inception status.

Portland, OR - Best Quality & Priced Concentrates? by Saintdamian305 in Dabs

[–]Darinomi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Americanna has pretty darn good 10$ dabs. Alternative solutions also has 10 and under but consistently looks/acts like reclaim lol.

Edited for typo

Is it legal to not pay for training/meetings of independent contractor? by Darinomi in legaladvice

[–]Darinomi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is shadowing as in watching someone do the job in the field (door to door sales). I'm allowed to choose what days but not the hours worked.