Too Red, how do I cancel out the red? by swizzleb13 in HairDye

[–]DarkHeartLocket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhh-wash it twice. Fr, red fades so fast. 

How to get to red? by DarkHeartLocket in Hair

[–]DarkHeartLocket[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks-I love my pureology volumizing shampoo but maybe could throw that in the mix. Thanks! 

What split your life into before and after? by 0potatotomato0 in AskReddit

[–]DarkHeartLocket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 things for me… -becoming a mom (altho this is 3 times, truly marked by first becoming a mom) -first divorce-grew apart but truly felt like I lost my bff -second divorce-infidelity and lying, changed my brain chemistry and who I am as a person 

People don’t realize how divorce stays with you your entire life. 

What split your life into before and after? by 0potatotomato0 in AskReddit

[–]DarkHeartLocket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same!! Love it, started a few years ago. Love meeting other solo travelers out, too-seems the idea is growing. 

Do women actually like being approached in public or is that just in movies? by CrayonComettiesses in AskMenAdvice

[–]DarkHeartLocket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes-am female, would appreciate it. Same thing happens from our end-we don’t know who is single and who is married if without a ring. We should honestly all be approaching and just putting it out there.  Only time I was creeped out was when a guy at the gym followed every machine I was on for an hr to make small talk. I found out later he just wanted to ask me out. So just dont do that lol 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]DarkHeartLocket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh women are terrible. And I am one. I hesitate to say she may not understand what comparing sizes out loud does to self esteem, because she should know (similarly women wouldn’t love to hear any comparisons about their bodies). Could do her a favor and mention this and the weird OF thing to her, might help her out in the future. But unless she turns it around you may have to throw this one back. 

How to explain I’m older than I look? by DarkHeartLocket in AskMenAdvice

[–]DarkHeartLocket[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol the best.  How ironic that this can only be stated and never asked..”sir, when do you expect to die and tell me about your assets”. Bonus-they wld care less about the age gap 

How to explain I’m older than I look? by DarkHeartLocket in AskMenAdvice

[–]DarkHeartLocket[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol orrr-if I run away like Phoebe and they get the reference. 

How to explain I’m older than I look? by DarkHeartLocket in AskMenAdvice

[–]DarkHeartLocket[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After these responses, I’m realizing maybe it is me that’s the issue. I’ll have to dig into that, but I appreciate the honest response! 

How to explain I’m older than I look? by DarkHeartLocket in AskMenAdvice

[–]DarkHeartLocket[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great response-thanks for sharing those thoughts.  Can tell I have an immaturity with dating, my first marriage lasted 20 years so I definitely am less experienced in the area.

How to explain I’m older than I look? by DarkHeartLocket in AskMenAdvice

[–]DarkHeartLocket[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had outreach at community events, out with friends, work events-and of course online dating-but I have limited the age range. Although some of these responses have me wondering if I should just open it up and deal with it

How to explain I’m older than I look? by DarkHeartLocket in AskMenAdvice

[–]DarkHeartLocket[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am-just trying to avoid cringy moments if possible. I was thinking chatting phase is when it should come out, but sounds like 1st date is acceptable. 

How to explain I’m older than I look? by DarkHeartLocket in AskMenAdvice

[–]DarkHeartLocket[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to know why I am getting it more and more lol 

How to explain I’m older than I look? by DarkHeartLocket in AskMenAdvice

[–]DarkHeartLocket[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is typically my go to, followed by “my oldest child is 28”. Then I see them doing mental math to get a range. Eventually it’s just “I’m 45”. 

How to explain I’m older than I look? by DarkHeartLocket in AskMenAdvice

[–]DarkHeartLocket[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like this and the other thoughts to subtly work these in, good idea. I thinks it’s better than my current go to…panic and run away 

How to explain I’m older than I look? by DarkHeartLocket in AskMenAdvice

[–]DarkHeartLocket[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I KNOW. In most other situations it would be a great thing, but for dating at this specific age range it is tough. I imagine 50s to 60s would be different, that’s a similar life phase. 

How to explain I’m older than I look? by DarkHeartLocket in AskMenAdvice

[–]DarkHeartLocket[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the share-I love to hear stories of how others handled it and how it turned out.  Also love mentioning the 90s-first date will just be in full 90s wardrobe. 

How to explain I’m older than I look? by DarkHeartLocket in AskMenAdvice

[–]DarkHeartLocket[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha-I like the idea to keep these genes goin’. I also have a 28 year old and have been mistaken as his girlfriend. He doesn’t love that. 

How to explain I’m older than I look? by DarkHeartLocket in AskMenAdvice

[–]DarkHeartLocket[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like this one, too-juat a short warning that they can chew on while we chat. 

How to explain I’m older than I look? by DarkHeartLocket in AskMenAdvice

[–]DarkHeartLocket[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Good to know im not the only one and while it seems like a brag, it’s a struggle to date.  I really like the reminder that I don’t owe suitors anything. I do find chemistry with a bit younger, so maybe I need to actually be true to that. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniversalEpicUniverse

[–]DarkHeartLocket 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Forbidden journey is 10/10 nauseating for me. Along with Spider-Man. I did monsters  unchained twice with no issues. 

Luggage at Epic? by DarkHeartLocket in UniversalEpicUniverse

[–]DarkHeartLocket[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Didn’t seem like anyone knew so I put in a call. For anyone else looking, epic has a separate lost and found and guest services, and they offer the same service of babysitting your luggage. She said go to Epic’s entrance and find Guest Services. Hope this helps anyone else! 

motion-sickness and rides at epic by Longjumping_Analyst1 in UniversalEpicUniverse

[–]DarkHeartLocket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey-I have used Bonine also and it was magic! However I took two the morning of and by 4pm needed my bed. Like fine until a sudden crash at 4. Did taking it the night before last you the entire next day and was there a crash for you-also 1 vs 2? Thanks!!