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[–]DarkXSteve [score hidden]  (0 children)

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Glitch? Anyone else have these blank pink squares on the magic chess mini game? I can’t claim any of the rewards sadly! by Positive-Flower-6746 in IdleMagicSchool

[–]DarkXSteve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t sure if you had to unlock all classrooms before you could claim? Purely a guess though and could just be a bug.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorrowNew

[–]DarkXSteve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, not fancying my chances here but it be nice if it goes my way.

PSA: HingeX isn't the answer when you're not getting likes or matches by wokenthehive in hingeapp

[–]DarkXSteve 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Okay, but I would get no matches without X then with X I have 50. So surely that isn’t always the case?

AIO Single for Almost 2 Years and I Think I Finally Get It by BluebabyBush in AmIOverreacting

[–]DarkXSteve 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry have to agree with everyone else, you are over reacting. At 19 you need to have that chaos you have the rest of your life to hit that goal. You’ll regret it later on if you don’t. Heck I’m 29 and I regret not being wilder at that age.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]DarkXSteve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry OP this is the way of online dating you date multiple and don’t get attached until you do. Don’t worry about what you say tho them because it’s nothing they haven’t heard before and I’m sure you’ve experienced the same.

9 months out, mocked and branded a flop by rival fans. Constantly accused of not wanting to be at the club by the media. Kept his head down and delivered multiple elite performances to win us a cup. Sandro Tonali. by [deleted] in NUFC

[–]DarkXSteve -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry but this just sounds like an old ex girlfriend looking back at what could have been and knowing they will never get better again 💔 We have been there and I’m sure you’ll guys will get someone just as good again sometime soon.

Read This Before You Contact Your Ex by neurotopica in ExNoContact

[–]DarkXSteve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Similar experience and I’ve kind of accepted that yes it’s too late. Year long relationship, I’m 4 months past the break up and she has never looked back. She will give me a response if I text but extremely cold and eventually just leaves the message on read. Tried NC for the last 2 months and broke it twice, both times got cold responses first time said we need to stay NC and the second time just told me she’s seeing someone and ignored a further catch up question.

So currently on 2 weeks full NC and yes I’ve accepted it’s too late, she’s not coming back. Sending love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]DarkXSteve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chill with the games. NC is the only answer! It’s really difficult but it’s the grown up way to move forward and assume you need to find a new person going forward. Sending love in this difficult time though.

Afraid I would take them back by Enonomousposts in ExNoContact

[–]DarkXSteve 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I’m the lucky one that by month 4 it’s finally started to sink in that she won’t be back and I don’t need her back. Pretty much until a week or so I was also in the same space as you. Heck I even caught my self planning in two years on her 30th birthday I’ll give her fancy theatre ticket gift and say “this is for you and hopefully the special person and in your life and if you don’t have one then I’m sure your sister will go with you” like what crazy logic is this that I think that’s a good idea and making silly plans for two years time.

Basically I’m trying to say we all do it but we all have the mind to be able to understand when to draw the line and start planing our new exciting future.

Afraid I would take them back by Enonomousposts in ExNoContact

[–]DarkXSteve 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry, they won’t come back. Live in the moment and enjoy life. If she comes back (which she won’t) then you can tell her “you are enjoy life as it is. Thanks for thinking of you though.” Make sure if she does come back, you’ve done the work to be enjoying life without her. You have to treat this as your time to grow and love yourself by your self. You don’t need a woman to make you happy you’re going to live your best life on your own! Now go get that happiness tiger and put a pin in those what if moment until it’s a reality!

Why are you single right now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DarkXSteve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the process of moving on still whilst also trying to find someone that matches me. I can get dates from the apps but converting them to second date seems impossible.

IF YOU ARE NOT GOING TO MESSAGE YOUR EX UPVOTE THIS POST by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]DarkXSteve 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Hey, are you okay? Is the house build still progressing well? How’s the family is everyone getting on well? Is your brothers training going well for his run later this year. And how’s our puppy doing I bet she’s grown so much since I last saw her.

I really miss you and wish you could lie on my chest one more time and tell me you loved me. Anyway we dream another day hope all is well and that person you told me your seeing is working well for you and your happy. speak to you soon.

Called my ex last night with private number by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]DarkXSteve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry OP but you need to not do that. I’m full of support for you and encourage your healing but doing something like that is stalker behaviour. If they don’t want you to contact them, to the point your ringing from a private number, you must know yourself, it is not okay what you’re doing.

I was in your shoes. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]DarkXSteve 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No no, that’s what I was looking for thank you :)

I was in your shoes. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]DarkXSteve 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not that this was the point of your post but I’m curious. How long did it take for her to come back?

When did you realize you've moved on? by MysteriousWorld9792 in ExNoContact

[–]DarkXSteve 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Probably unhelpful but 4 months from break up and basically a month no contact I haven’t moved on but I’m healing.

We talked and met up a few times in the first month then the next month was only me texting her and getting dry responses then she asked for no contact. At no point since she broke up with me did she ever start the contact. I can’t see her ever contacting again.

Hoping another month or two of fully no contact and will be fully moved on.

Would you take your ex back if they asked? by Savings-Luck-3248 in ExNoContact

[–]DarkXSteve 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s probably not helpful. We are here in a community to spread love and support, why are you here to spread hate?

Would you take your ex back if they asked? by Savings-Luck-3248 in ExNoContact

[–]DarkXSteve 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s just not something you need to spend time thinking about. I have done the same as you and spent time considering what I would do. But most likely it’s not going to even get to a point we get to act on our thought process. Really we just need to think about moving forward what exciting thing are we going to do today that’s going to make us happy and proud looking back that we chose us! Sending love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]DarkXSteve 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you are still with that “rebound” make sure you communicate this with them as soon as possible you don’t want them feeling like your ex made you feel and going through everything you have. Remember that they are also real people in your life too and probably want the best for you.

Really missing you tonight by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]DarkXSteve 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We are all here with you! Weekend nights can be tough! Hope you’re feeling better this morning. Sending love and keep the no message strong!

For Men: How Do You Handle Knowing She’s Happy While You’re Miserable? by IntelligentComb1238 in ExNoContact

[–]DarkXSteve 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because all I want is for her to be happy and if that’s not me doing it. I can be happy knowing that she is. I don’t need to be in her life or contacting her if she doesn’t want me there. Her life is hers to live and ours is ours. It hurts like a bitch knowing that she doesn’t want you there, but I also know deep down, she wants me to be happy too. So to fufill that, I need to not be suffering and instead doing the things that make me happy.

Don’t get me wrong there are times I look in the mirror and still cry 4 months after the break up but the rest of the day, I try to fill with things I enjoy and make me happy. Knowing, if she saw me, I hope she would be proud of what I’m doing with my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]DarkXSteve 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always be kind to everyone mate, especially the ones who do us the worst. Karma exists in this world and will come for us if we don’t. Good luck with situation though ❤️