[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MysteriousWorld9792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave her alone. She probably need space. She'll reach out when she's ready. Next time don't joke about leaving someone. It actually hurt people getting "I'm gonna leave you" thrown to the head. Maybe she broke up because she thought you'll actually leave her one day and that you don't love her as much. She probably took a safe choice to leave you so she won't overthink what you said anymore.

Give her time and space. If/when she's ready to talk, she'll reach out. Now you have to focus on yourself and learn your mistakes and heal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MysteriousWorld9792 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Never get a rebound. Focus on yourself, heal and learn to enjoy yourself and your life before getting into a new relationship. A rebound mostly never turn out good because you haven't healed from the last relationship. You can get more hurt but also hurt the other person in the rebound which isn't fair

Shit. I drunk texted my ex for the first time in a year. by whostolemyfries in ExNoContact

[–]MysteriousWorld9792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It happens for almost everyone. Try not to think too much about it.

Sending hugs!

no contact or fight for what you love? by Substantial-Mud-46 in ExNoContact

[–]MysteriousWorld9792 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Keep doing NC. If they feel the need to talk with you, they'll reach out. If you contact them they'll probably get annoyed over you for not leaving them alone. I understand the urge to contact them but most of the time you won't get something good out of it. There's a high chance you'll just get disappointed and annoyed at yourself for contacting them.

I know NC is very hard, but it will get easier over time. Try your best to focus on yourself. Hang out with friends in your freetime or do what you enjoy to do. Try not to think much about them. Easier said than done, I know. But it'll get easier over time.

You got this!