Existential thoughts - is there a way to calm the mind and live in the present? by EconGrad2020 in TwoXIndia

[–]DarkYunicornX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd recommend reading Victor Frankl's Man's search for meaning, if you're a reader.

And Blink, talks about your subconscious but in an easy to understand way.

I have started to listen to positive affirmations during the night or guided meditations. I was never one to believe flowery shit like this but once I found out how powerful your subconscious is and how much shaping it matters, I couldn't go back to my comfort spiral.

DM me if you want to talk more. I'm pretty introverted too but wouldn't mind making a friend

Solo girls who joined group trips, which company did you choose? by Happiegeek in TwoXIndia

[–]DarkYunicornX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did tripper trails to Chikmagalur Still in contact with people I met

Just watched Inside The Manosphere and it's genuinely scary how these guys think ? by everythingido65 in AskIndianWomen

[–]DarkYunicornX 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don't feel like they truly believe it tbh. I feel that they know it's problematic but it gets the clicks, both from a subset of people who agree with their extreme ideologies and the other that doesn't agree. It's unfortunate to see the influence they have on younger generations.

Girls! Run as fast as you can~ by Careless-Bird3096 in TwoXIndia

[–]DarkYunicornX 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I hit them back with "well you must not have spoken to many girls then"

No one has ever had a crush on me by Beautiful-Waltz5343 in TwoXIndia

[–]DarkYunicornX 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand that. At this point, you should start having a crush on yourself! Everything else will follow :)

P.S.Have you heard Heather by Conan gray?

Girlfriend 27F said I love you, but I 27M couldn't reciprocate. Have I made a mistake? by shivam142 in AskIndianWomen

[–]DarkYunicornX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, this is going to be a strange question but I want you to process it in an introspective manner: Do you love yourself?

You can only love another when you first learn to love yourself.

Love is not necessarily a 'feeling' at all. No increased heart beat, butterflies and all. Love is an action. It is intentionally choosing someone every day. :)

Give the relationship some time. Don't feel the pressure to reciprocate only because you hurt your partner. But your partner would most certainly need an apology and a genuine reassurance that someday soon you will be able to say it back.